we have been friends for a long time, and i know she loves me as a person and we are quite close. I love her cause of her quirks and her somewhat strange yet interesting habbits.... however today she acted differently....
I mentioned to her a few days earlier that i had feelings for her, Today - i asked her to meet me at the park - I was there - she was 15 minutes late, she came running and just ran and gave me this big hug and held on to me for a few seconds, then she took my hand and we started aimlessly walking and discussing strange and totaly random things....
I asked abt why she is so detached and why she has not gottten into a relation yet - she said - she's still healing and waiting for someone to get to that point where she knows that it may just be worth her time - she said she is waiting for something to hapen, and cant wait for love to happen again...
I was wondering what this means, as i did not uinderstand it.??
I want to be there? what do u think is happening?
2007-03-15 00:21:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are the only one who can get into her mind. How do the people on Answers know anything about what is going on in a stranger's head. Go ahead and ask her outright. That is the only way you are going to find out.
2007-03-15 00:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'she's still healing and waiting for someone to get to that point where she knows that it may just be worth her time - she said she is waiting for something to hapen, and cant wait for love to happen again...'
This doesnt make much sense, but from what Im getting, it sounds like she was in a bad relationship before or went through a bad break up and is simply looking for the right person. The one that makes her heart jump whenever she just thinks of him. It sounds like it may not be you, though. It kinda sounds like she is trying to let you down easy.
2007-03-15 00:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes waiting for something to happen ...
Not even she knows but if it feels good and feels right then that could be all she needs.
If you're serious about this lady you've got some work to do. Firstly I would concentrate on making things 'happen' for her. Having an insight into her past may, likes and dislikes would be an advantage because then you would know what to do and what to avoid i.e. what foods she likes / dislikes, places shes been with her ex
Do things spontaneously for her ... the more positive things you do for her the more things are 'happeneing' for her
2007-03-15 00:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. We women sometimes act strange and want you guys to take a hint. But from what you're saying, I'm not sure what she is saying.
2007-03-15 00:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is asking you to give her some time to get to know you. She has been hurt and doesn't want to be hurt again. Just tell her about yourself, and ask about her likes and dislikes. She will come around.
2007-03-15 00:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you want to be her boyfriend.
2007-03-15 01:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cheng Zhi Lim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋