My husbands ex wife as poisoned his daughter against him he has given uppat rights does he still have to csa

Question

we are not sure what our legal rights over csa payents because he gave up rights over to stepfather

Answer 1

Yes he does unless the stepfather has legally adopted the child
Can't see how the mother poisoned the child though,
If he's willing to give up his paternal rights so easily perhaps the mother was right to ' poison ' the childs mind

Answer 2

Your husband could seek proffessional advice from citizens advice bureau. This is so sad when people use children as weapons,Hopefully they will help u and your daughter will come round and she will find out the truth which means his ex will be the monster not your husband!! At least if your hubby seeks advice it will all be on record then if the ex try's to go to the csa and say he has not been paying for all this time they will see that he has tried.

Answer 3

He probably needs to see an attorney to discuss this. However, in order to take the high road, he should continue to pay child support. While he may not have to pay it anymore, the bottom line, this is still his child. Nothing can change that and while the child may or may not change her mind regarding her dad, by continuing to pay the child support, he can hold his head up, can claim that he didn't totally abandon the child and did the best he could by her. It's called taking the moral high road and while it ain't cheap or easy, it's the best way to go.

You should encourage him to do this. You don't want to be the one that encouraged him to just walk away from his child and out of her life. While I don't condone what the ex wife has done, he needs to try to stay a part of the child's life. In addition to paying the child support, he needs to visit her as often as he can and be there for the special occasions (birth days, graduation from high school, holidays, etc).

You don't want to be the one seen as a shrill harpie, who came between him and his daughter. Encourage the man!

Hang in there. I know it's not easy but in the long run, both you and he will be glad you went that route.

Answer 4

Doesn't matter who done what, in the UK the father is responsible until the child leaves full time education - doesn't matter if the father has never even met the child, as long the mother give a name-any name, to CSA the named father will have to pay.

Answer 5

The child has a right to be supported financially this has nothing to do with anything else. If one fathers a child one has the moral and legal responsibility to pay child support until that child is able to support themselves.

The issues between your husband, his child and his ex-wife can best be solved by your remaining out of the picture and keeping your opinions to yourself. Many relationships between fathers and children are ruined by a new wife talking negatively to the father about the situation.

Sounds like things are bad enough without your butting in. The major issue here is the happiness and welfare of the minor child. Not your happiness, nor that of your husband or his ex-wife.

This is why parenting is best done by mature people that are intelligent enough to know the issue is to focus on the child not the hurt feelings of supposed mature adults.

Answer 6

UMMM, So because the little girl does not think much of the father....he gave her up.....sounds as though the mother may have been right. This is his child, if he loved his child he would be doing everything in his power to prove the mother wrong, and to show the child that he is not the bad person that the mother keeps saying he is. Later as she grew, she would have realized this, and said wow my mom was childish, in this whole situation by trying to turn me against my dad. She would have figured it out.....but the father has to be proactive in the child's life.....not just an occasional visit when it is good for the two of you. This is his child ...... his flesh and blood.....he needs to show her that he loves her more than anything and that includes you......if my husband ever put me b4 loving his own kids......i would have pinched his head off.
He is still responsible for payment....and should be wanting to....she belongs to him as well. he needs to somehow work his butt off to make things right between he and his daughter, and prove the mother wrong

Answer 7

just my advice - may not work for you. i dont know the age of the child, but regardless of what the mother has put into the childs head, they are still your husbands flesh and blood. there will come a day when the child is old enough, not to be influenced by the mother. my advice would be, that if the payments are not affecting you to much, let him keep paying, then when the day comes when the child asks why he wasnt there, your huband can say, he wasnt able to be there but he made sure they were looked after, he did his best to support his child, in the only way he could.

just something to consider, hope it helps.

Answer 8

It sounds like he poisoned his daughter against himself when he gave up his rights. It also sounds like you are only concerned as to whether or not you still have to pay money.

Call a lawyer and ask them. However, why don't you put the blame where it rightfully belongs, in your husband's lap. A good parent doesn't sign away their rights.

Answer 9

As an Alienated determine, Iwould say permit her circulate. whilst she is with you attempt to coach her by occasion of issues that are in suitable. you are able to prepare her some situations the place photos are shown around college after boyfriends breakup with women. attempt to fulfill the extra youthful men that she must be seeing. carry in there the custodial determine has all the rights. do your perfect on a relationship, you lost maximum of your rights in the divorce. I lost my 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old boy to alienation 3 yrs in the past. it extremely is extra significant to maintain a relationship and stay in the youngsters existence. Your ex will use you struggling with over the telephone against you.

Answer 10

There are no rights over csa, except if the father is absent he pays. Whether you see the child or not, is immaterial. You are required to help support YOUR child.