My husband and his twin sister are very close. They have been inseperable ever since childhood. The other day when I came home from zoo training class, I found my husband and his sister taking a bubble bath together! I was completly shocked. They had soft music playing, candles lit and even rose peddles in the water. I couldn't believe what I was seeing. When I started yelling and screaming at them and demanded that they get out and get dressed, they looked at me like I was crazy. They told me that their behavior was perfectly normal and that I was acting like a fool for yelling. They said that they have been washing each other for years and that I had no reason to be upset. Was my husband right? Is it normal for my husband and his twin sister to bathe together?
2007-03-15 00:06:45 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should join them! LOL! Your questions crack me up!
2007-03-15 01:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE SO NOT IN THE WRONG HERE!!!! If you came home to anyone else sitting in the tub w/ your hub you probably would have acted worse, and rightfully so! Did they know you were coming home at that time? I don't believe washing is all that they've been doing. Is the rest of their family a little off? Molesting going on? Hope you don't have children, this will f*ck up their head.
No they are not normal.
No, baths together stop prob. around 5 years old or so.
No you don't look like a fool.
You have every reason to be upset.
Whats with the rose pedals, candles, and soft music, if no romance is happening, it's a contradiction?
Some people who commit incest think it's normal because they don't know better.
Good luck, I feel your pain. I also feel scammed! LOL
2007-03-15 00:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that twins have a special bond but i think washing and bathing with eachother is NOT normal. I would react exactly the same as you. Maybe you should show your husband any replies you get back on here because i think u will find the only 2 people that think this is ok is your husband and your sister-in-law. Good luck to you. You are not overreacting in anyway.
2007-03-15 00:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, why on earth would you even question yourself. You know that isn't any where near right or OK and Normal. Come on!!! you go back to your husband and say NO. NO NO NO.
You don't ever want to see that again, not in your house. If he needs to bathe and wash someone, it will be you and you alone, he needs to show some respect. and if he stills says your crazy,
tell you what, Lets ask everyone we know, if they believe its normal. If they agree, than I 'll take crazy, but I'll take my crazy self elsewhere. If they say its not normal, Your sister is not allowed in our home, if I am not at home.
2007-03-15 00:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sick! If I were you I'd be furious. Looks like he doesn't need you to wash him down, he's got a sister. they're so close they must of had their first experience together. If they were that close, how come you didn't know that before you got married? If I were you I'd leave him. but I know things are easier said then done.
sick! sick! sick! yuck! I have siblings of both sexes and I would never bathe with them and I did when I was a little girl.
2007-03-15 00:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not sound good. Everybody should have their privacy. And when brothers and sisters get matured thy should separate no matter single or twin. I did not heard this thing before. To me what they are doing is not normal. Can you consult with a psychiatrist. May be they can give you an explanation and suggestion.
2007-03-15 01:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by dibesic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those were rose petals. What happened in your other fantasy? This one does not even make the top ten on ridiculous questions on yahoo. If you are smart enough to type then you know the answer to the question you pose. We however are smart enough to type too and are fully aware that you made up the situation to excite yourself and antagonize the easily outraged. Silly person!!!
2007-03-15 00:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JESUS CHRIST!HELL NO!!IT IS ILLEGAL!
how can u let him do this to you..first of all it is extremely perverted and sick...it is also illegal and extremely insane.talk to him and explain it is not normal for a brother and sister to bathe together when they are older than 5 years.explain it to him.if he really doesnt give a **** im sorry but u got urself an insane husband...
2007-03-15 00:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by -N!k0¬ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume your husband is not paralilzed and is capable of bathing himself. Good Lord! NO THIS IS NOT NORMAL. if youre old enogh to get married your old enough to wash yourself. all the candles, rose petals bubbles should be for his wife NOT HIS SISTER. for Heaven's sake get out before they have a three armed baby that you have to raise.
good luck dear
2007-03-15 01:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more than worried. That is sick behavior on their part. I would tell your husband he needs to get help form a professional. He married you not his sister. Thatis not normal behavior for 2 adult siblings to be taking a romantic bath together. I wouldn't forget about it either. I would tell him he better get help or that's it.
2007-03-15 00:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe this is a serious question...!? Come on, your husband should not be bathing with anyone but you. Being a twin has nothing to do with the issue. He would be well on his way to being my EX-husband if I were you. :|
2007-03-15 00:10:34 · answer #11 · answered by yepitsme22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋