I have a girl in my class and everyone knows she's pregnant. The guy she did it with is in High school. She is in every single one of my classes and it's really akward and she randomly leaves class all the time to cry in the bathroom. It's xtremely akward! I'm only 12. Please HELP!
2007-03-14 23:32:07 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just be there. Be that person that isn't judgemental of her. Try to comfort her. She is going through a lot and so what if she is pregnant? She is still a human being. Just try to understand where she is coming from. Pregnancy causes a lot of hormonal changes and she is probably getting a lot of stress from family and kids in the school. Try to be supportive of her. :)
2007-03-15 00:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You know most things are only awkward if you let them be you have to remember that she is still the same girl she was before she got pregnant she just made a mistake
Try not to judge her by that mistake try to be her friend because god only knows the poor girl needs friends right now
This isnt going to be easy on you either as her friend your going to find your self emotionaly taxed
2007-03-15 03:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by infinate_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude look at it she's only 12 years old and she's going to become a mother in what say 7 months of course it's "akward" she isn't ready to be a mother at her age! think of yourself being a father at the age of 12 you would be crying or be very depressed right! Just be friendly to her because the next couple of weeks it's going to get more akward because of her emotions and that her parents being very upset!
2007-03-14 23:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Shy Kaapie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe you should try to talk to her, she is going though something very difficult and she might not have anyone there for her especially the father since she is so much younger then him. The next time she leaves crying ask if you can go after her, just go in there and sit next to her, give her some tissue, and if she wants to talk listen to her, that would be very hard at her age, and even if she isnt one of your friends TRUST ME it still helps to have someone come and see if you're okay if youve left the room crying, i know that from personal experience, so just try to be there for her even if you don't know her k
2007-03-15 03:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realise that her leaving the classroom from time to time might be distracting for you but other than that this poor child's predicament can't possible impact on you, except perhaps to act as a lesson for you. Hopefully you will be more careful. If you can't be supportive of her during this difficult time then you get on with your business and stay out of hers.
2007-03-15 05:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to kick her out? Like out of the school?
Or if you're just a person who doesnt want that tension in the room when she walks out. Talk to her.
Maybe you feel weird because you think she's going to keep it. Do you know why she cries?
Do you know if she's going to keep it?
Do you know her?
Maybe if you got to know her a little and be a friend, you might feel more relaxed when she's around.
2007-03-15 00:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of help is there? You have a sad, pathetic, tragic thing going on right in front of you. Is the guy 'she did it with' over 16? Report him to the police, then. Apart from that, what can be done?
2007-03-15 01:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by cassandra 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just comfort her. it will be a great relief for her if she knew that there's someone who is supporting and caring about her. because at this time many people probably look down at her. so try to always cheer her up!
2007-03-15 03:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's a turducken? do you already know the respond? its a cooked turkey with a duck filled interior it and a hen filled interior the duck! boy i learn new issues in many cases used, thats for particular!
2016-10-18 10:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so im guessing this is mioddle school! try to make her smile! be her friend go to the mall with her.....shes going thru a hard time right now!
2007-03-15 07:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by livin*it*to*the*X-TREME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋