2007-03-14 23:17:44 · 22 answers · asked by soumendrapathak 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is YOUR life! Others would like to control you, and have you running around, and doing as they tell you to do. Stand up for yourself, and go your own way, but remember to make a reasonable contribution to the society which supports you. If it is necessary for you to provide for your family, you may need to make certain compromises for a while, and put your plans and dreams on the backburner (postpone them), but don't forget those things. Remember to be respectful, but firm and resolute, and do not waver from your decision.
2007-03-14 23:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See your belly leads to selfish motive and help others those who are in need exposes you to think your surroundings. Naturally your own life is important for your existence and as well the responsibilities grow with your life. So, the responsibility is base for your existence in life. Hence, the priority is for your responsibility which give automatically the next priority of your own life.
2007-03-14 23:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to Priorities your self first., if you meet your own needs and be happy and satisfy with your life thats the time you extend your hand to help others, because if you are not happy in your life It will very hard for you help others maybe you are able now to help them but if theres something lack in your life time will come that you will get tired of helping those people around you.
It’s the same way like swimming if you don’t know how to swim and you are getting drowned and there’s other people getting drowned too… do you think you would be able save them? Of course not you should know how to swim first before you will be able to help other.
2007-03-14 23:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by carry on 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Priority should be given to time management only and every thing must become easier,
As you should know that parent and wife are the safest support by which u can discharge other responsibility in happy mood.So,parents and wife are the soul part and u should never avoid them, provided that is basic and necessary.
Jamil
2007-03-14 23:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two opinions on this - YOU first, YOU second, YOU third and then the rest. Hey! if you are not happy how can you keep someone esle happy. You can give to others only that which you have in abundance. So if you have only sadness, you can only give that. So you should be your priority. Nothing in the world is worth your own happiness.
2007-03-14 23:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by surnell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first responsibility is to yourself.
I have two children and a husband to take care of, but I am always sure to take some time for myself.
I learnt the hard way with it all. I ran around like a headless chicken trying to please everyone else and ran myself totally ragged. I ended up having a nervous breakdown, because I wasn't taking care of myself and my whole life was determined by what other's expected of me.
Taking care of yourself doesn't take too much, even if it is having a bath with bubbles. Or taking time out of your day to have a coffee and a smoke by yourself.
I joined a gym and I go religiously once a day, and that leaves me feeling great, attractive and full of energy and ready to tackle my day.
And, other people can take care of themselves too.
The only people that truly need me for anything are my children.
2007-03-14 23:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life HAS to be priority. If you do not function properly or attend to your needs, you will become unreliable to others. You must make sure you are at your best so you can give others the best of your abilities when called upon. Good luck!!!
2007-03-14 23:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by roritr2005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
According to me, " If you given priority to others life then fortunately your own life remains happy with full of joy............ It is true only.....
Because generally others will not have supporting friends like you.... If you care for them then they also come good in their own life. So always prefer to care for others........
You have your own parents and well wishers to support and care for your life.... LIke wise they also had if you given your priority to them......
2007-03-15 01:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by midas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say more on what situation you find yourself in for either of these. Anything life threatening, then your own life, however putting other people's needs and happiness before your own is a selfless and honourable act that I think is all but gone from the world today.
2007-03-14 23:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your own life shd be yr priority ; then comes the responsibility to others.
2007-03-14 23:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by PnkFlr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋