2007-03-14 22:57:47 · 17 answers · asked by linz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends
how old are you as to where you might go to meet some.
If you are under 18 then you cant go to pubs or clubs.
If you are still at college or school then youth clubs and sports clubs may be a starting point.
2007-03-14 23:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not on here....! I guess out in the real world, although after spending some time single after a bad relationship in past.. I am kind of wondering how to go about it!
So good luck, I am sure you will find someone.
2007-03-15 00:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and be yourself. Dont make it obvious you are on the look out that is very off putting you will look desperate.
Change the venues you go too.
Enjoy yourself being single that special person will turn up.
2007-03-14 23:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are too young to even think about getting with someone as part of a couple.
however if you are under 18 then a lot of what most people have said makes sense. Don't try too hard, just be yourself and act natural. if you see a guy you like the look of go over and start talking about anything but your real motive (finding a boyfriend), now if the conversation goes well he or you may want to make plans to go somewhere just be natural. if you like the guy and he asks you you are half way there (this technique should work regardless of how old you two are (though unless you are over 18, and even if you are over 18 always makew sure someone knows where you are going, who you are going to be with and what time you expect to be back, if you find you are going to be late back make a call to who ever you told where you will be just so they are not panicing about where you are).
personally i'd say also as far as yoru clothes go dress age apropriate and if over 18 if you want a one night stand short skirts and t shirts etc or other skimpy outfits will get you that. if you want a guy to love and respect you first you are going to have to respect yourself so dress smart casuals that do not reveal too much of yourself leave the guys plenty to think about when they (speaking as a guy) mentally undress the woman that interests them. It may not be right for us guys to do that, but it is hard wired into our brains so it is hard to break that habit.
as far as actualy geting a guy to talk to you make sure you send him a smile and may be a wink you may need to repeat that two or three times before he gets the hint though if you don't leave about a minute to five minutes between each smile and wink he may think you are desperate or a tease.
if he does not approach you, you approach him after about 15 minutes, but be prepared for the sorry not interested (or may be not as poilte) response. he may already be in a relationship and so may not want to get involved with you.
pubs and clubs are one way to go, but you may only end up with guys looking for one night stands and they may be drunks and drug addicts also.
meeting in the grocery store or just out in the street is one way to meet people. just be open to any one who may talk to you you can always tell them to get lost politely (you don't want to get arrested for using abusive language in the street).
if you are single, living on your own, use a hand basket in the store and only buy enough for one person for one or two days, this will signal to any single guys in the store that you are single and may be available so they may makew some sort of excuse to approach you.
personally speaking i've heard most of the tips above work. though personally i'm still single at age 33. though i have seen plenty of young women (25 to 40) who i like the look of i have never had the confidence to go and approach any of them to make friends let alone ask any of them out. this is for personal reason that i will not go into on a public forum.
2007-03-15 00:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a big bag or a net, and a wiffle ball bat. Now the key is to hit them across the, or you could just flirt with a guy you like and ask him out to I suppose.
-NmD!
2007-03-14 23:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go out and look for a nice boy freind and start off as freinds
2007-03-15 00:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by thomasessex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your baps out and drop your knickers and see who comes running...it worked for me..... lmao
Normally men come to you sweetie not vice-versa
2007-03-14 23:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who has the happy sack!
2007-03-14 23:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by escargo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try looking too hard, it never works out when you do. these things tend to happen when you least expect it, they have in my experience anyway
2007-03-14 23:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am looking 4 a girlfriend. where do u live? (john, rock island, il)
2007-03-14 23:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by nowheretogofromhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋