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2007-03-14 22:53:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sadly, almost every day. I need to toughen up. any ideas how i could do that?
2007-03-14 22:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by lynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...what is being too nice...I think when we feel like we are doing more than what we are receiving.....Yes, I did to my ex. They did not appreciate it that's why they left. I was regretting then but on the contrary, I could have taken them out of my heart 'cause I tried all of my best. I guess this can go to other relatoionship too. Once we have tried our best no matter what would happen, that's what all matters. Sure we can learn from that experience how to minimize that potential regretting moment in the future though.
2007-03-14 22:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yogurt and Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, When I worked in a State office setting 14 yrs, I was known as the white knight. when something was needed to do that was heavy work,or just anything I would do it. well it has been over ten years since I left there. I now have back problems,I feel very used and kept in the position because I was a people pleas-er with attention deficit disorder and bi-polar and the coworkers know something was not in order. I'm young still, but feel worn out and I have a need to throw in in the towel as limitations are preventing me to do most jobs.
I regret that I did this for so many people and now barely help myself.
2007-03-14 23:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by BONES 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes many times
2007-03-14 22:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. I once offered a ride to a close friend. THEN the whole family and the relatives of the family started asking for rides and errands to be done for them.
OOOoooh, that was difficult for me. 1 time okay. but to keep planning or ADDing on the the list WHiLE they in ya car while you driving them home??? come now! that is my experience.
but i the long run....YOU never are bad for doing so. BUT, if repeated with the WRONG person and you are losing sanity/safety/money?????? THEN you oughta stop.
2007-03-14 22:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't. I have regretted having misplaced trust in people, but even then i don't regret being nice.
2007-03-14 22:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!Just the other day I bought a mocha from my favorite coffee shop and this girl came up to me and said "You're fake being so nice" and then she knocked over my full cup of coffee! I felt like it was my fault, but really it was her's b/c she can't take being nice to a single soul in her life!
2007-03-15 00:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Barlow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you're nice and tolerant people assume that you have to be easy going all the time whatever they say or do.
OK I may be tolerant but when they pass the border I become a real b***.
What a shock for mortal abusers!
2007-03-14 23:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by psychocat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, there are a few times when others take advantage of the fact that I'm nice.
2007-03-14 22:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by emma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time. I can hardly ever say no to anyone, but I can to most of the guys I know, apparently now I find it kinda hard to do that. I think guys like girls who can say no, and I better start doing that.
2007-03-14 22:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Every day, to my husband. And every day I start being nice again, and every day I regret it! Isn't it sick!! Frustrating... But I can't help it.
2007-03-14 22:56:35 · answer #11 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋