2007-03-14 22:44:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When he does things he hasn't done in a long while; when he jumps in d shower right after getting home; when he says his clothes got dirty but only puts his underwear and shirt to wash; when where he has gone to dosen't add up to the time it took to get home; everything is an argument; no sex; limp sex; takes a while to get started sex; comes home in a good mood and after a ph call goes sour; erases numbers right after getting a call or text; stupid reasons for going to the gas station; angers when checked up on; perfume in the car and on clothes; defends certain females during discussion; won't talk about certain females; goes dumb when asked about certain females. TAKE YOUR PICK
2007-03-14 23:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would see the red flags...staying out late, Is he accusing you of cheating, is he telling you your crazy if you ask him if he is cheating, acting like your the ones who is paranoid, check his cell phone records, look for a change in his behavior toward you sexually and emotionally. Have someone check up on him or show up where he said he would be unexpectedly see if he lies to you about anything? Does he take a shower right away when he comes back from someplace he might have been in the middle of the day or late at night? Is he not sleeping with you?
2007-03-14 23:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by CAW1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know when my husbands lying to me, I tend to speak his thoughts or finish his sentences. He's never cheated on me, but when he lies to me, he gives me things or does nice things for me. That's out of guilt. If your hubby does not have a guilty conscience, I would think you should check his clothes. Also try checking his car for mileage and gas. Check his cell phone and wallet. You're a woman, be the bloodhound you were born to be and snoop around. You'll know when something's not right!
2007-03-14 23:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by leafmistress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long have the two of you been married. You will see a few sign like, he can't hardly wait to get out off the house, he will have this little smile on his face, always dress up, sometimes he will call saying that he have to work late, and there's this secret call or late night call, been there and done that...
2007-03-14 23:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you don't....as they say, "the wife is usually the last to know"....I believe that there probably are always "signs" that something is going on. However, most women are too busy living and dealing with the day to day to recognize them. Usually you hear the wife (or husband) say that this or that happened and they should have suspected....
2007-03-14 22:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if he gets secretive phone calls he leaves early for work he gets home late he loses interest in sex and starts to push you away. you smell ladies perfume on him etc.
2007-03-14 23:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had an affair years ago and got found out - nearly lost everything, my wife sort of suspected anyway, never under estimate the female intuition!! you girls are normally right!!! she found out by text messages!!! i would say just ask him, but chances are, he will lie to you;-/ my suggestion is to keep an eye on his comings and goings, are they normal for him and does he usually do them?? good luck
2007-03-14 23:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by shaun j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WON'T KNOW TILL YOU ASK. HE MIGHT NOT TELL THE TRUTH . BUT IF YOU ARE ASKING THIS QUESTION YOU MIGHT BE CHEATING YOURSELF OR THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE WRONG IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
2007-03-14 23:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not have absolute proof of this, but you are a woman and you know!
2007-03-15 04:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tootsie2175 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he doesn't come home at night...
2007-03-14 23:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋