Ive known this girl since december, we have been good friends. Since school started on feb 5th, nearly everyday i have been buying her lunch as well as for myself. I always felt that she liked me and we would have something.
But today during school class, one friend told me that the girl said to her she doesnt like me about a month ago.
I cried during lunch time, i wanted to tell her that i knew she didnt like me, but when she came up to me, i was afraid to say it. I still have her in my heart, i like/love her a lot, but if she doesnt like me then i duno wat to do. If i told her, i would probably cry in front of her. Maybe tomorrow i will feel stronger. But i really dont want to lose the friendship we have. I also dont want to buy her lunch almost everyday now, if she asks me to get her lunch, wat should i say? Wat should i do about this friendship?
2007-03-14 22:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It becomes even more complicated, i think i am feeling jealous that my mate is talking to her, making her laugh, and joking around with her.
I always do that to her, but i feel like i dont want to lose her because im afraid she will find someone else, which is most likely the case..
2007-03-14 22:31:36 · update #1
Hey dude RELAX !!!!!!!!!!!!!
First of all the girl didn't like you one month before,her feeling for you might have changed now.
If you don't want to buy lunch for her,don't buy it.If she still spends time with you, it means she is your friend.
If she doesn't don't bother ,you want and friend and not somebody who stays with you for "free" lunch.
Is this mate the same friend who told you that the girl didn't like you.
If yes you seriously need to consider your friendship with him.
These are testing times,stay strong.Cry if you must,hang out with people who love and care for you.
Lots of luck and wishes.
May god bless you.
2007-03-14 22:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Priska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a month ago. Her feelings may have changed. Tell her what you heard, and ask her if she still feels the same way. If she does, ask her if she would like to remain friends, and don't buy her lunch EVERY DAY any more!
2007-03-14 22:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't even a friendship. This girl is messing with your head just to get her free lunch everyday.
If you didn't want to confront her, it's fine. But don't keep on buying her lunches. If she ever wonders why you stopped, tell her you don't like her, that's why.
2007-03-14 22:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are all distinctive. some human beings choose reassurance, some human beings choose area. there's a bubble element, using fact of this all of us have a circle around us, those human beings who're autonomous do in contrast to our bubble to be entered and would handle on our own. people who're insecure have bubbles that are very huge becoming a lonely area and choose on consistent reassurance, no count number if or no longer that's actual or emotional. You the two would desire to ascertain your friends huge bubble and be there or decrease ties.
2016-09-30 23:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing i must say to you young man is this quit being such a wimpy , crying over puppy love and trying to make a girl like you is so lame. the first sign of being a man is to accept things that you cannot change.. go on with you life and quit acting like a cry baby , take some stock in yourself .. you cannot make this girl like you no matter what you do..she will see that you are weak if you let her know that it,s hurting you because she don,t want to have anything to do with you. there is no way you can make this girl to like you ,, she has the right to like you or not like you ...so get over her and go on with life ok...
2007-03-14 22:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww that hurts! but you have to be ready for anything that se have to say about that friendship if youre planning to talk to her about it! nways, maybe she just like you as a friend and nothing more than that. With that kind of attitude you deserve someone better that would appreciate you!
2007-03-14 22:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you cant afford to buy next time and if she still hangs around maybe she does like you if not then she was just using you for watever she could get. But dont always believe wat you are told. Test her and see for yourself
2007-03-14 22:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋