i look at girl and i think about a girl all the time
2007-03-14 22:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by adrianna r 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Then you're not gay.
Now go 'n do your homework, mkay?
2007-03-14 22:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Its so much more complex then just you're gay or you're not. . . I think that a lot of people have feelings for both gender's (and no im not saying everyone!) but the feeling for the opposite is sex is stronger then the other. I fall in love and love people for who they are, I do not consider myself a homosexual, I have never been with a woman, I love men. They are the sex that I am attracted to and feel that way about. But I am never gonna say that I would never have feelings for someone of the same sex, because I cannot predict that. I guess what im trying to say is that you know you like women, dont worry about what you technically are blah blah, just love who you love :) And from what your saying you love woman, and that makes you a hetrosexual. . . . so the answer i guess 'technically' no you are not gay. But what if you once had feeling for men? even if you dont have them anymore, what does that make you? see these are the kind of questions that are confusing. . . .. . . . .
2007-03-15 05:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't need to ask others this question. The answer lies within your feelings. If you think, feel, and believe that you derive sexual pleasure exclusively with members of the same sex, you are termed as a homosexual. This is more or less a clinical definition. But when you ask yourself if you are gay, do you also think that you will be able to spend a life together with someone you love, and s/he happens to be the same sex as yours?
2007-03-15 07:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nate is absolutely right. Being gay isn't just about sexual desires, it's about knowing that for a long-term relationship, you would be happier with the same sex than with the opposite.
Don't be ashamed.
2007-03-15 05:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you could have a meaningful relationship(not just sexual) with someone of the same gender, you are most likely homosexual.
2007-03-15 05:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch gay porn....
if you are very excited or completey disgusted by the thought... you're gay
if you are thinking about it you're bi, bi-curious or simple straight but slightly confused
2007-03-15 06:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you is gay have a nice day
2007-03-15 05:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you don't need to ask this question--you know the answer
2007-03-15 05:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it in the rear once...that should answer all your questions!
2007-03-15 05:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋