matured,married, or having deep/serious relationship.,...tell me ..due to an accident or due to some illness, your partner having permanent disability in sex..or not getting the urge permanently ... 1.Do you consider dump him/her and move out? 2.Do you prefer stick with him/her till your last breath. 3.Why? cause of the society? or cause of commitments? 4.cause out of curiosity...I just wanted to know how and up to what extension ? and why? you wanted to give this answer for my question. 5.Be serious please.
2007-03-14 22:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by 2bros 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just answered tha a while ago. My answer was:
No matter what happens to my husband I will stay by his side and with him for as long as he, or I, live.
This is simply because I truly love him and because I know life is not about sex. He also bears with me now that I lost my sex drive to some extent due to pregnancy.
I gave an answer to your question because I want you to know that there are definitely people out there who get married/committed for the right reasons, and therefore remain committed to their partners no matter what.
And my answer remains the same.
2007-03-14 22:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what type of accident and the severity of damage, sometimes Chiropractic can do the trick. If the nervous system in the spine is being interfered with it isn't sending the messages to that part of the brain that affects that part of the body. After my husband started getting adjusments and he stopped worrying about it so much over time all of those functions came back and better than before. Seriously before that I didn't care about sex much as I know how to take care of myself and most certainly loved my husband more but now he has made me even want it more. That is what standing by your partner can do. You do the right thing and it comes back to you double. But like the rest of you said the person you married for better or worse will be by your side when you are old and take care of you too and that is a great feeling.
2007-03-15 06:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by lilrunaway45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married I told my husband if anything happened to him and he was unable to perform I would never leave him because I love him more than that. He had a friend who's wife was having an affair because he could no longer perform due to serious back injuries that he couldn't sit or stand longer than 20 min. Unfortunately, I found out if I was ill he would leave me in a heartbeat because marriage to him was not about problems and standing by the one you love. As long as he wasn't entertained and having fun it wouldn't work for him. There's more to life and love then sex. It's important but if you have to please yourself. I could never leave someone because of their inability for those reasons to have sex. That seems very shallow to me.
2007-03-15 05:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"To honor and cherish, til death do us part, thru health and sickness, rich or poorer,....." explains it all. Accidents happen and what if the shoe was on your foot. This is exactly where real "true" love kicks in. Where we make sacrifices for those we love, to put their needs before ours. Society really has nothing to do with this unless you believe all the junk society offers and are a follower instead of a leader. But its your life so you must be true to yourself and satisfy your needs and wants. Good luck
2007-03-15 05:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with my wife no matter what.
I married because I love her, enjoy her company and want to be with her, sex is a bonus. I admit that it can be a very big and enjoyable bonus, but it isn't the main issue.
I would be pushing the wheel chair around into my 70's if necessary.
2007-03-15 07:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that's hard, I have been through it with my wife.
I am still with her, The voles we took was for better or worse until death do us part,and I did a lot of praying. Our marriage is under God and in Gods eyes that is not a reason for divorce. My wife and I went for about 12 years with very Little sex, That was extremely hard for me. I Prayed and Prayed because I don't believe in divorce, I made my mind up that divorce was not an option, It's not all about me no matter what desires or temptations I had, I needed to do what was right in Gods eyes. Now after 12 long years God has blessed me, And my wife came to me. God puts us through test and I believe in staying faithful to God and the voles I took. I Will pray for your wife and you.
2007-03-15 05:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before getting a good answer you should inform the age, social status, family members - kids, income matters. Considering all these factors one can give ones opinion.
2007-03-15 08:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by dibesic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't care about society. if i were in a position described by u, i wud stay wid my partner throughout simply bcoz of the fact that i luv her. physicality is a prt of love, it's not the entire thing. if i only wanna be lusty, i wud go for call girls and such stuffs, y wud i marry in the first place? besides, what wud my partner do if i were impotent?
2007-03-15 05:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Iliketodream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage has a huge commitment in love...it really depends how much you love your partner. I saw many women that their husbands got this sort of disabilities in war but they still love eachother and live together. sex is not everything, dear!
good luck
2007-03-15 08:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be with some one you are in love with. staying with some one because they have a disability is not right for you or the other person. be honest because you love that person and that is what you would want from your partner. staying with some one because you "have too" make for a unfilling life!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 05:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by talonmcl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋