why is it when straight men find out that you are either gay or bi they dont want to know you but try thier best to aviod any sort of conversation or contact with you what so ever.
i just dont get it i mean it would be diffrent if i was interested in them but yer
2007-03-14 20:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They are afraid that you might try to open their closet door.
2007-03-14 21:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Same reason gay men do. Men are generally less mature than their female counterparts, at least that's the general consensus. That's not always the case since there are definitely some scandalous females out there. But from what I have experienced, a lot of people don't like to deal with their feelings, rather turn to things like substance abuse (drugs or alcohol) to delude them from the harsh realities of our lives. People could take the time and analyze themselves more and how their issues could affect those that surround them, those that care. People like that tend to bottom out until they can run no more. Lack of maturity, I guess.
2007-03-15 04:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know something I have never had that tape of
reaction from any of the st8 people that I have meet.
When someone finds out that I am gay they became my
friends.
I can honestly say that I have more st8 friends then gay.
It may be the way you act when you are around them, give
respect and you shall receive respect.
2007-03-15 04:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are homophobic, especially the macho types. They think that gayness might "rub off".
2007-03-15 05:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, id talk to and be friendly with a gay guy, but i dont think i could ever be close friends with one, i guess its cuz ppl wanna hang out with other ppl that are similar to them, i dont have anything against gay ppl though
2007-03-15 04:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by bigjacka55 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have sex with other men dude! You submit to other mens desires. You let other men dominate you.
Straight men want to be around men who are their equal.
2007-03-15 08:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have a hard time dealing with things they don't understand. they probability thing its contagious. sorry hon wish you didn't have to go through these things. dont let them get to you. they cant accept you for who you are then they don't deserve your friendship.
2007-03-15 04:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by hottie hot hot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's mostly because they are insecure about their sexuality , it could also be that, like any living creature in this planet does... fear what he can't understand.
2007-03-15 04:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Claudia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't like you. Period. Has nothing to do with your sexuality. Not everything is about homosexuality, you know.
You are fishing for two possible answers here.
(1) Straights guys that are avoiding you secretly are afraid of you because they *like* you sexually. Which is your FANTASY. Ain't gonna happen.
(2) Straight guys who avoid you hate you because you're gay. Boo hoo. You want SYMPATHY. Ain't gonna happen.
2007-03-15 05:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Just Ask Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Yes they rip your clothes off... stay the night... and in the morning they run out the door!!!
2007-03-15 04:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋