Can You please help!!
2007-03-14 19:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just tell him. Dress nice and put on some perfume. It can't hurt, can it?
2007-03-14 19:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You’re just an average looking guy like most people are. Some guys will be interested in you and some won’t. Looks attract a person, but personality keeps them. When was the last time you seen a gorgeous looking old age pensioner? It doesn’t happen, does it? Looks don’t last forever (time is like a burglar, it takes all the nice looking things and leaves you with all the old crap).
The secret is to make the most of what you have and work on your negative points. There’s no way any of us can tell if that guy will like you, we don’t even know if he’s gay. You have to take chances in life, but you also have to expect to get hurt occasionally. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-03-15 04:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by MrCute 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I guess I fail to see where your being attractive has any bearing on telling a guy you like him.
What you're doing is saying "Hey, this is me, I don't know if you like the way I look, but I want you to know that I do like you, and I just want you to know, so that if things are good, we can get together.". If it sounds scary, that's because it is- you're putting yourself out there on the line, making yourself vulnerable. But it happens to everyone- nobody knows for sure that they are so attractive that the object of their affection will just swoon. It's a matter of either gaining some confidence or taking a 'screw it' attitude and just doing it anyways.
In one of my favorite shows, a very homely and plain woman working with a man makes several insinuating comments that get him flustered, and then she finally tells him "I find you sexy, Jack. Deal with it.". Absolutely blew me away- such bold honesty, and put in a way that someone made her powerful and in control, rather than shyly mumbling that she liked him.
I don't know if that's the way to go, but I think whatever you do, you should try to keep that spirit in your heart- you have nothing to lose except the opportunity of a lifetime.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 20:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you ask everyday if you are attractive. Quite honestly I don't think so. I also think it's "unattractive" that you keep asking. Further, if you want to meet someone and tell him you like him, do it without all the drama.
2007-03-14 21:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to know that you are attractive first. If it comes across that you find yourself unpleasant chances are others will also. It is about self confidence. And yes, everyone has a certain type. If you are a preppy jock but he is attracted to bears then he will say no. Not because of how you look, but because of what he likes.
2007-03-14 19:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
By all means, just be honest. It's up to him to decide whether you are attractive or not. It's what inside of you that counts in the end... of course if it isn't a matter of a small time fling :-) All the best.
2007-03-14 19:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think you're attractive. Good luck.
2007-03-14 20:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The world does not care about your sense of self-esteem, honey, so you'd better start caring about yourself - because your insecurity is a real turn-off.
2007-03-14 22:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Just Ask Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That would be for him to decide wouldn't it?
just do your best and see where it goes i suppose. Attractiveness definitons vary by people, so you might hit the perverbial jackpot.
2007-03-14 19:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by Xerberus 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
hey just ask him your a cutie and so is Gregory "nice smile"
2007-03-14 20:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋