how can i stop my hubby from drinking and lying?

Answer 1

Just a thought consider giving him an ultimatum. For instance honey I'm getting tired of all your drinking and lying
make a choice its me or drinking and living a life of telling lies.
Sometimes guys just need a little wake-up call to get in line. But also be prepared for him to say fine leave me I like drinking more then you. I have seen this happen with an older brother so just be on the ready for him to come back with this remark. Have you considered an intervention with family and friends? If it is severe and he is in total denial this may be the only thing that gets him thinking?

Answer 2

You hug your hubby closely. Make him not lying and drinking your every part of beauty alone gives utmost happiness. Express and expose yourself with neat touches of every part to him and make him sure and confident that you alone are the most satisfying on this earth than any drink or law or question of lying for drinking a drug does not arise. Close observation of addiction towards your companion will definitely keep you near and you are his deer and dear one to be as one eventhokug you are two in number. That way of bringing yuour hubby in your hugging and close touches feel that he is to be with your for every touch and lunch and hutch talk or action towards sweety wife alone.

Answer 3

You cant stop him, Its the individual who has to think and fix up himself to stop drinking. He should be fully busy throughout the day and that gives him no time for nonsense.
First thing you can do is to take him to hospital to get rehabiliated if he is heavy drinker/daily drinker.
On complition of medical cource he would be given discharge
Its here where you love and family guidance is required to turn the events and bring him back to good life.
Still 100% self determination of indvidual would only bring him back to normal life
As far as lying is concerned its only because of your bullshitting that he wants to hide from your wrath and noise that you make when he come s back having drink.
You should try to handle with love and understanding. You can keep in touch for further guidance

Answer 4

You can't make someone do something they're not ready to do. If you can't live with the lies and drinking, LEAVE HIM. Most people need something very tragic to happen before they realize what a mistake they've made. Go live with your family for a while. Tell him you refuse to come back until he's worthy of your love.

Answer 5

My husband was a happy drunk so I thought I could deal with it at first but when I found myself raising our kids alone, driving home from everywhere while he slept and going through life having to explain our vacation pictures to him because he didn't remember half of those times that meant so much to me. The first part of our life together is all through my memories because he had none, I finally picked him up drunk from a friends house and let him out at his Fathers house and as hard as it was I stuck to my guns. Tell him you'll support him while he attends AA meetings as long as the drinking is out of the marriage but let him stay out of your life long enough to let him know you are serious. My husband begged and cried and it tore at my heart but I waited till he showed me proof that he wanted us more than beer. Does your husband say he's only had one or two every time you ask how much he's had to drink? It may be the truth because their blood/alcohol level is so high they stay drunk all the time. But thats probably just one of the lies you mean. The sheets on my husbands side of the bed were stained in the shape of his body from the chemicals in his skin. I would find warm beer and empty cans stuffed into spare tires lying around in the garage or at the side of the house. He didn't attend any meetings but he did quit cold turkey. But we could all have used the support and information from some kind of classes and other people sharing their own experiences. If he won't go maybe you should. Get some advice from someone who's been through it. Best of Luck! My husband doesn't regret stopping for a minute it has been 19 years, and will never drink again but it was harder on me because he didn't go to AA and inside he blamed me for the longest time but he wouldn't talk about it or admit it till years later. Your husband needs to know he is doing it for himself first.

Answer 6

dont push the things too hard, just give him space and freedom (in real) think about yourself do you nag too much.. are you the reason why he is lying or he is doing it with everyone if it is you with whom he is lying than you are the reason..
drinking is quite common among men and try to accept it and talk to him about that and try to mend it amicably.
all the best

Answer 7

Drinking and lying go to together like ham and eggs because lying is what addicts do. They lie about stuff that they don't even need to lie about. If he gives up the sauce he may give up the lying but I wouldn't hold my breath.

Answer 8

Arrange drinks for him in house for a change.Serve with fine cut glasses,soda and ice bucket.Try to make it look very professional.Prepare some snacks.Wear sexy lingerie and give him company with soft drinks or soda.

Answer 9

remove your bed hobbies like drinking, smoking etc. then think about particular thing that drinking is harmful for everyone so that this think keep in your mind then you stop your bed hobby

Answer 10

Cuttting his tongue off would take care of both problems at once. Just a suggestion.