Well there's this guy I'm apprenhenive about. Well he works at my gym, and there was alot fliritng action going on.He gave me his number, and I called him and he told me that i was very attractive, and invited me to workout with him, and to attend church..and that if i ever wanted to go out too a movie or hang out to call him..so I called him, and we made plans but he ended up cancelling so we set it up for the following week..and oops again we ended up not going out once again..so then he tells me "He'll let me know when he is available" and I'm like okay..sothe following week we talk this is all by text messaging by the way and I tell him to call me..and he tells me he can't dial out. and to call him ..and so i call him and we talk for an hour. And I find out that he's 25 and he still lives at hom, hasn't had a girlfriend in six years..hasn't had sex in a year,hasn;t finished school, but oversees his family church that he's heavily involved in....so my question is what do you think
2007-03-14 19:23:01 · 7 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No... you can do better.
If he speaks to you,.you can give a polite answer and move on... don't flirt anymore. Just go to the gym and do your thing. If he asks you out again, go with your gut instinct... but I personally would just tell him "We tried that before, I don't think it's such a great idea... but thanks for asking..." and go back to what you were doing.
Good luck! ; )
2007-03-14 19:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if a guy cancells on u twice it is such an obvious sign that he is soooo not interested and that he is just too shy and polite to tell u that in your face and besides u go to the same gym with him. and u re so very not nice person - u re too clingy. leave a poor guy alone. quit stalking him. he will soon start hiding from u. if he wants smth he will contact u. a woman has to have pride and should run after each guy and clinge to him and beg for dates
2007-03-15 02:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has too many issues...and is probably married, living with someone (not his parents), does not work, looking for a sugar mama, doesn't have his own cell phone or doesn't want wife/girlfriend to get hold of messages, no prospects for education or work and comes to the relationship homeless, broke and undercover. he's hiding something and it ain't jesus. 6 years no girlfriend, sounds like he's been incarcerated and trying to hide it. think of the worse case scenario and he's probably it. the fact that you still have to ask what someone thinks...means your already emotionally involved. free your mind and your a** will follow. run like hell in the opposite direction if you're smart.
2007-03-15 02:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by formerlylunesta@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is he's a real strong Christian who cares about religion. When a couple can share a common love for GOD, than nothing else should matter.
Just sure he's not lying to you and covering up his real life. Then that should matter and you should leave him some nasty message.
2007-03-15 03:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you want him to insert his harry wang into your love pocket. Quit BS'n and give it up already.
2007-03-15 03:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on - find someone else - Im sure you will at the gym, he is a mummys boy
2007-03-15 02:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ruuuuuuuuuuuun.....
2007-03-15 03:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋