2007-03-14 19:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by glory y 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
We are human.So mistakes and misunderstandings do happen.God has bestowed upon us the qualities like Love,forgiveness,Forgetting.
life has so many facets.Where there is love and friendship,there is some possessive nature.so some times for small things.immaterial things we misunderstand.then we understand again..and life goes on.That is the wonder of Love
2007-03-14 22:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get to choose your family. Sometimes you can't relate to them at all & it's hard to get along. But it's important to find a way because they are an important part of your life & if you don't have a good relationship with them it will take a toll on you. My brother & I have had our problems but I'm trying to have a close relationship with him again. We were friends as kids but then we grew apart as we got older. It was hard to live under the same roof. We got in each other's way. We were so different. We fought all the time. But I love him & I want him to be a part of my life, even though I've moved away now. Actually since I've moved out, I think it will be easier for us to get along. Men & women are so different that it's hard to live together no matter what the relationship is. Living in our parents' house was a stressful place to be!
Clear up misunderstandings. Say you're sorry if you went wrong. Forgive them if they went wrong. Holding grudges hurts you as much or more than the person you're angry with. If you can't say something nice, say nothing. Tell your loved ones that you love them. Life is too short.
2007-03-15 02:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean ?
U want to b close to someone u Love.... But u can't clear ur misunderstandings.... Why.. ?... Is it something that u have done wrong... or is it something that the other person has done wrong ?
Misunderstandings can never bring u close to anyone... it will always create gaps... even if to try to ignore the matter, then also there always will be some kind of weirdness between u and ur loved one which will never bring u close...
If u have done something wrong... accept it... clear it... apologise for it...
if they have done something wrong which is bothering u... then discuss it... clear everything...
be open minded when u talk... don't b biased... listen...
Come-on... there is no such thing in the world which cannot be discussed... and everything could be solved if done with calmness and patience...
Just talk to the one u Love... Just make urself clear... if u have done something wrong, then accept it before him/her... don't feel embarrased to accept ur mistakes.... u'll learn from it...
Trust me... ur honesty will bring u close to ur loved one...
Take Care...
2007-03-15 06:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sushma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the previous situation and act accordingly to the current and donot let down your temper. everyone in the world has to die some or the other day.
Think that everything is normal.I should be happy and make the others to be happy is the main funda of present living.
Tell me what you will get in hatred behaviour, you will loose the surrounding people.
Be a model for others.
Please have a positive attitude irrespective of the situation.
2007-03-15 04:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by sudhamunireddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the misunderstanding at one corner in your mind. However, be smiling whenever you both face together, make a nice general talk and bring him to to laughter. He will be in close because your behaviour alone make him understand and he won't misunderstand in future.
2007-03-15 03:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By using misunderstanding as a means of education for strengthening relationships further
2007-03-15 04:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first clear the misunderstanding,even if u have to say an extra sorry.then have a heart to heart talk.speak honestly about your views on the situation.don't be afraid to pour out your opinions.and even if your angry,don't show it,bear it with a smile on your face.try to understand the other person.
2007-03-15 02:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to clear the misunderstanding!
2007-03-15 02:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by nainap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being patient to each other with compassion, dignity, mutual respect. Being tolerant with set boundary
2007-03-15 02:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by mej 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! That is what I am doing now.
My wife hates me so much.
And I love her as much!
2007-03-15 03:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋