i can't believe what he did... he read my diary. now he knows all my secrets...my crushes and my thoughts...im feeling really terrible and annoyed...i mean... MY BROTHER READ MY DIARY!! omg! i can just cry! god! advice for me to calm down and get over it? my brother is SUCH a l o s e r
2007-03-14 19:01:58 · 17 answers · asked by vrules 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
uhh.it was my older brother who read it..
2007-03-14 19:13:32 · update #1
who told you to maintain a diary anyways? they aren't reliable. anyways, no use crying over spilled milk, you can't do anything about it now, pointless to fight with him, he might spill all your secrets, but this should be a lesson for you....
2007-03-14 19:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by faiza_t 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It was certainly an invasion of your privacy and not a very nice thing to do. It is understandable that you feel this way. Perhaps you should tell your parents about it and stand your ground on deserving your privacy in your thoughts and feelings! Please do not be upset about this to make yourself sick over it! You say he is such a looser, so perhaps your parents could talk to him and give him a good speach on how to behave like a gentleman!
I'm sorry you had to through that dear heart. After you talk it over with your parents; I'm sure things will get straightened out and he will know better than snoop into your affairs. That's no business of his! Be firm but not aggressive dear heart! He made a terrible mistake and will learn his lesson. In a way it is also a lesson to you not to be careless about where you leave your diary. There are some with a lock on it if this could help, perhaps this is the kind you should get.
Peace and serenity to you.
2007-03-14 19:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it worry you. He's not going to linger on that stuff like your friends would. It's not really important to him, he was just being nosy so he could have something to make fun of you for.
Maybe you can write something in your diary that will really freak him out and set it out as bait for him to read. Then you can watch his reaction and get some sense of pleasure from the act.
2007-03-14 19:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and do some think that mite help take your mind off this matter, like: watch a movie, bring ya friends over, or reading etc.
It could have been worse. Its not the end of the world yet.
:)
2007-03-14 19:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, i had the same thing happen to me! Very annoying! I think you should tell your brother that they are your secrets and thats why they were in your diary. Just tell him nicely that if he tells anyone, you'd be really disappointed in him and that you'd like to think that you can trust him =)
2007-03-14 19:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by xxmisshelen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
discover what ur brother hates the main and provide it to him as a latest for revenge and because ur brother of course knows the place u conceal ur diary make a pretend diary and positioned it the place u in lots of cases positioned ur actual one and positioned the actual one some the place have been ur brother would not be attentive to
2016-11-25 21:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry about it to much as all brothers read their sisters diaries, it is just curiosity for him and he gets to know you better. when you get older you will wish he was around to talk to as he will be able to understand you better than anyone. ya it is annoying i bet but he means well.
2007-03-14 19:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has a younger brother five years my junior. You two will totally laugh at this when you are in your twenties.
My brother and I laugh and laugh about the stupid stuff we did to each other. It will be OK, really.
2007-03-14 19:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
* Pretend that you are moving on... Write a fake diary easy for him to find with all kinds of stuff that would bother him... maybe some of his secrets. Watch him sweat... oh, I know... plan a fake party for him and he will expect it and it won't happen.... poor babe.
2007-03-14 19:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your brother has power now. Well, depending on your activites.
The good news about little brothers is...they take bribes. How much you got?
2007-03-14 19:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋