Im Gay.. He's Straight?..?

Question

OKAY WELL RESENLTY I HAVE DISCOVERED I AM IN LOVE WITH A STR8 GUY. I AM STUCK IN THIS WIERD POSITION. I AM SINGLE AND NOBODY KNOWS THAT I AM GAY. PEOPLE SUSPECT IT ALL THE TIME AND I REPLY SARCASTICLY YES. WELL BACK TO THIS FRIEND, HE IS 1 YR YOUNGER AND I LOVE SPENDING TIME WITH HIM. ITS THE BEST. NOTHING ELSE CAN COMPARE. 1 DAY I TOLD HIM TO SUCK MY DICK. YES KIND OF CRAZY BUT IN A JOKING MATTER. HE THEN REPLIED IF I WERE TO BUY HIM A LAP DANCE FROM A STRIP CLUB HE WOULD DO IT. THIS CONVERSATION HASNT CAME UP SINCE. MANY PEOPLE THINK HE IS GAY THEN WHEN THEY ASK HIM HE GETS SPOOKED IN A WAY AND THEN RAMBLES ON ASKING RANDOM PEOPLE IF HE LOOKS GAY. HE ALWAYS SAYS HE HATES GAY PEOPLE BUT COULD THIS BE BECAUSE HE IS SCARED OF THE TRUTH. NOT WANTING ANYONE TO SUSPECT HIM OF BEING GAY? I HAVE DONE SO MUCH FOR HIM. I GET HIM GIFTS ALL THE TIME FOR NO REASON AND CONTACT HIM EVERYDAY. HE RECENTLY MOVED AWAY. IT HAS BEEN REALLY HARD BECAUSE HE IS MY ONLY THOUGHT. I AM IN DEEP. PLEASE HELP ME

Answer 1

I'm sure it's been frustrating to have a crush on an unattainable friend, but for the time being, you're probably best off as friends. If your friend is gay, he'll need time to figure that out for himself, and it's probably not going to help if you push him on the topic. The best thing you can do is make sure he knows that you'll accept him no matter what. He needs a friend a lot more than he needs a boyfriend. Be patient. If there is a possibility of a relationship as more than just friends, that will have to wait for the time being.

Answer 2

OK you guys are both running from something. slow down. he could be straight and you are clinging on to him so you won't have to actually commit yourself OR he is hating gay because he is gay... One of two things here.. Dive for it. Let him dive for it. FRUSTRATION... Wait around or look somewhere else... Isn't it FUN?