I have had a couple of crushes on girls but I dont know if i am bi or straight and worried about this because my mom is gay
2007-03-14 18:18:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
and any of u who are gonna write it is a choice and if you chose to be gay you will be punished by god dont bother
2007-03-14 18:24:13 · update #1
Why be worried?? And why label yourself? Go with your heart, and do what feels right. (An ye harm none, do what ye will.)
If you fall in love with a soul then the body shouldn't matter. (You don't reject a gift just because you don't like the wrapping!)
2007-03-14 18:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 5, Tony was 7. I was the youngest boy at camp. On an outing it was our cabins turn to go to an island in the lake and camp out in tents. Tony and I zipped our sleeping bags together because it was warmer and we cuddled and hugged all night... we've been together ever since... OK I'm kidding about that part. I grew up not knowing that gay was something people could be. But I crushed on male teachers and school mates until I turned 14 and realized hey! I'm gay. I'm free... Let my people go! Barbra! Liza!
2007-03-15 02:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew because I felt that women made me fly, whereas men made me cry...of laughter.
Guys are a girl's best friends, not diamonds. Girls can be a girl's best lover.
Go with your heart, with your intuition and with what your body says feels right. Remember you don't have to label yourself, you can go with the flow and see where you end up... If your mom is gay, then you have tremendous input there, you should talk to her if you haven't already...
big hug, hope all turns out for the best.
2007-03-15 01:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Fashionista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a choice. I knew I was born gay. I am not a christian and I know that some people are born gay and some are not. If you don't think you can fall for guys and have relationships with them, but you go for women, then you're a lesbian. If you see men as friends, but women rule your heart and sex organs, you are a lesbian.
2007-03-15 02:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day while i was in 8th grade I skipped school with a couple of friends.We went all over town and at the end of the day we visited our friend Miguel who went to a different school.His school got out 45 minutes before ours did so we had some time to kill before we had to get back to our school.Once he had gotten out of school we had been talking to him for a few minutes before he introduced us to his friends.One of his friends had caught my eye but the weird thing was the person was a girl. I had never been attracted to girls before or atleast not that I would openly admit to myself.
He told us all of his friends names and I found out her name was Emilia.For some reason I had to find out whether she was straight or not.To my delight I found out she was bisexual
but I kept kicking myself for each time I felt any attraction towards her.
A month after I met her I still couldn't get her face out of my mind or the way her smile danced across her lips,her deep brown eyes that haunted my dreams or the way her voice seemed to make everything fad away while I was in her presence.For months after that fateful day I had questioned my sexuality until all of my suppressed emotions came flooding back on me.I came to the realization that I was bisexual.
During my earlier years in middle school bisexuality was regarded as something to be met with contempt.People all around told me that bisexuals are greedy,confused,non existant,really gay or just really straight.Everyone said this except my bestfriend.She told me the straight truth and helped me up when no one else was willing.For that I thank her.
Without her I would still probably be in a self-hatred,denial and in an internal homophobia.
2007-03-15 02:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by 17-4serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing up I always had crushes on boys BUT every now and then a girl would catch my eye..make me feel a lil something ..it wasnt till I was in bed one night at the age of 16 when I said to myself...F*ck Iove women...I could supress it anymore..Kept it to my self until 18 when I had my first experience...
2007-03-15 01:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a tingly feeling watching Chad Allen on the tv show "Our House." Then it just progressed from there. I totally had his pics on my wall from TeenBeat and stuff. No wonder my mother knew before I told her.
2007-03-15 01:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My big indicator was a complete lack of interest in males. Ha. That made it pretty clear to me : )
2007-03-15 03:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got excited watching Tarzan movies.
2007-03-15 01:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
When I had sex with a women and wanted to do it again and again.
2007-03-15 01:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by korngoddess1027 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋