my best friend have a relationship with a married man im trying my best to get her out of this relationship but she always says that i should support her because she is happy with that relationship and thats what friend are for supporting each outher
2007-03-14 17:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by cool as ice 25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Most people could only wish for a friend as thoughtful as you. You prolly already said things like "Why share?" "You deserve someone who is about you and only you" "I dont want you to get hurt" In the end watching it all fall apart is all thats left. Catch her, be most supportive then, she knows how you feel, but isnt going to change her mind. When her heart gets broken, or the drama becomes reality then she will need you the most. Dont rub her nose in the fact you were right from the start. Dry her tears and hug her, tell her you'll alwats be there. Dont ruin a frindship over a guy, esp one who is cheating on her (wether he is sleeping with his wife or not, not being 100% her is still not hers)
2007-03-14 17:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 21:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both have a different belief system, and if she has no morals and u do, it can really cause a friendship to go by the wayside. u can advise her, tell her what u think, but beyond that, theres not much one can do. she wants u to be unconditionally supportive of what she is doing so u won't prod her or question her in any way so her conscience won't bother her. friends also are there to help and tell the truth when a friend could be setting their self up for heartache.
2007-03-14 17:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her a married man is trying to flirt with her and may land her in trouble anytime and he has fulfilled his desire....you can also ask her what is the guarantee that he will keep you happy and will leave his wife for you...just try to make her understand that she should not take any step in a hurry which will make her embrassed and then cannot have any option but to make her life more miserable.
2007-03-14 17:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Shilpa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a grown woman, and if she wants to ruin her life you can't stop her. I would let her know that although you love and support her as her friend, you don't approve of this relationship. If she starts to talk about it, either smile and nod, or change the subject. She has to learn on her own.
2007-03-14 17:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the best thing you can do is to let her know you disapprove. Make it simple and not mean. Then continue to be her friend as always. She'll know you disapprove from there on out. If she falls on her face, you won't even need to say 'I told you so'. She'll also be more likely to heed your advice in the future.
That's my two cents for ya.
2007-03-14 17:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by dontsmokecrackorshootthatsmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its no longer you're business enterprise.. in my view i think of you only choose revenge . i comprehend its painful and he did a terrible situation yet you would be able to desire to objective to go on and start up healing. She won't delight in the information and could in all probability think of your a liar and a hassle maker. besides they have been separated on the time which skill he wasn't betraying his ex spouse and you're undertaking with him would not undertaking her. stumble on a expert to talk with i think of you will have created a romance that wasn't there. You stated which you have been depressed in the previous perhaps you made issues look distinctive that can assist you cope with your melancholy. Are you effective he grow to be extreme concerning to the muse, have been you dating or in any different case romantically in touch? experience extra appropriate.
2016-09-30 22:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything about it for now, maybe she's the kind who goes by the saying " mind your own business, scratch your itch on your own" no matter how deep your friendship is you still have to respect everything about her and vice versa, but if she realized she's wrong, be there for her and offer your shoulder and listen,( NOW THAT'S WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR! ) but dont ever tell her i told you so, continue loving her as your friend, you can only remind her next time around, but please dont let her ask you to do anything with regards to her current affair, against your will, this may cause trouble..goodluck
2007-03-14 20:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how she would feel if her hubby was to have a girlfriend. then tell her that you don't want to hear about her relationship because you believe it is wrong and he will never leave the wife for her. even if he does would she want a man that is a cheater because he will cheat on her too.
2007-03-14 17:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey she can't think that he will ever leave for her cause she already excepted being second she will never be first or the only one that's all you have to let her know and then the rest is on her you have officially done your put as best friend
2007-03-14 17:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by swass2death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋