Toy with a woman's emotions to earn her trust and then turn on her out of veangance.All because she did some unfavorable things towards me?
2007-03-14 17:30:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Revenge and lack of forgiveness does you more harm to you than the other person. Therapy might help.
2007-03-14 17:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and realize you're not on this planet alone. You're ego is running your life and if you keep it up, you and your ego will be alone. Take my word. This isn't something you need to work out in therapy. Therapy is for people who can't figure out why they do certain things. You know why you're doing the things you do. It might sound cliche but, what you put out, you do get back. People aren't here for you to abuse or toy with. We've all been screwed over. Get over it. You'll have people do unfavorable things to you again. I guarantee that. It's how you choose to deal with those unfavorable things that build your character. It might seem right to get back at someone in the moment when you're upset & hurt but, you're only adding to the cycle of dysfunction. That only hurts you. The other person moves on and you're stuck being a bitter man. Not attractive. Learn to not take things so personally even if they occur in a personal relationship. You're not the first person to be scorned and you won't be the last. Take the high road every once in awhile. It won't kill you but it will irritate the person who screwed you over.
2007-03-14 17:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure you need therapy. You sound spiteful. If you know you are doing this, why continue? Ask yourself why you do it? Is it because you are young? Don't want a relationship? Only like the challenge of getting into a relationship and then want out? What? I think you need to think about why you do this. It is obvious that you know what you are doing so that in itself tells me you don't need therapy.
2007-03-14 17:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I doubt you need therapy. You're just young and vindictive and need to grow up. Eventually you will learn that some things just are not worth the energy that goes into them. You should spend your energy more productively. Maybe looking for someone you can be happy with. Her seeing you happy will be the best revenge you could bestow. Being a dick just shows her she has won, because she got to you!
2007-03-14 17:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by Starlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only therapy I would recommend is to be a woman in your next incarnation. That'll fix ya!
2007-03-14 17:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a twisted barstad. You need to have your gentials twisted. Mostly around your vengeful neck, and pulled down around your midsection, tied off securely, and shoved down your throat. That would make you feel about as good as you made that poor woman feel, you barstad.
2007-03-14 17:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by modaphnineque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be a bad idea. you might want to watch out with what women you do this too, women are walking chemistry sets, they can go off at anytime. there could be some deep seeded issues you have in your life for you to do this to someone.
2007-03-14 17:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by fruitloop247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you feel guilty about what you're doing therapy will do nothing for you.
2007-03-14 17:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could use some assistance. You have negative thoughts and negative behaviors.
2007-03-14 17:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, even asking the question gives you the answer.
2007-03-14 17:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋