theres something a problem in his menthal ability that i dont know before we get married.his mom just introduce me to him.for 6yrs.i patiently overcome all these circumstances and trying to be a perfect wife and built dignity in marriage.sex also is an imperfect and seems not normal if performed.its a big struggle for me to live with him.i want to have a new husband who can gave me true happiness in marriage for good.it seems im a nurse taking care for my husband and im a full time working woman to cope some expenses cos he has his credits which i certainly dont know his past bill during his singlehood.I dont know how to begin to work this out.i want to marry someone,hes a foreigner also from africa.My question is ,how can i get him and get marry here without any hazzles.
2007-03-14 17:28:36 · 9 answers · asked by T.agbaraji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are a moron. moron. moron. moron. oh yeah, you are a moron. good luck with being a moron, I hope singlehood is good with you. maybe you could poison him with your moron-itude and the you would be free to marry any other moron you wanted. perhaps you will breed and have moron children to thrust upon the world for us to deal with. probably section 8 and public assistance. thanks! moron
2007-03-14 17:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are married.
First step, then, is to get divorced.
None of the rest of what you have written - nothing about imperfect sex or lack of mental ability (or spelling for that matter) -- no circumstances about money or bad credit -- none of this has any relevance to your ultimate question of "how can I get him to marry here without any hassles" (sic) UNLESS AND UNTIL you are divorced.
Go see a divorce lawyer and start the process if that is what you want. If you are looking for "dignity" then that is the only way to go.
2007-03-15 00:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i really have to say this cause i am really aginst divorce especially if you have kids i got married when i was 16 and i wasnt happy about the part of not fulfilling the things that i wanted in life but you noe when i look at my kids everyday i think about how much they would suffer and how hurt they will be for their parents doing this my mom was divorced 2 times and married agin and the thing is growing up i was always hurt that all my friends they would get to stay with both their moms and dads and my mom would just get divorced for something that she didnt like or she couldnt forgive..patience is the key to happyness..another thing is your kids may always say that its okay but the real thing is that they hurt ALOTE and i just wish you wouldnt think about just yourself but also your kids..a new dad or a new mom will never love your kids the way that real parents love you keep that in mind..oh and you may be offended but this is just my opinion..
2007-03-15 01:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by sandy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is, who do you really love? do you just love the new guy because you're the one getting cared for? people get tired of taking care of others, it happens all the time. but sometimes, they mistake exhaustion from falling out of love. so, evaluate your feelings carefully. your husband did not choose to be born that way. he just is. but if you really love this new guy, go for it. there is always going to be a hazzle. it's normal. someone will always get hurt. but if you believe that it's worth all the hazzle, then go for it.
2007-03-15 00:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by aeijae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thinng you need to do is close one chapter in this book
then you can see about opening a new one. you are marry
so if you want out of this then get a divorce, then you can
do what you want. but the grass may not be as green as you
think on the other side..
2007-03-15 00:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and get a divorce. If you are not happy, you should not suffer like you are. So go and find your REAL true love.
2007-03-15 00:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think an English course would be a better option than breaking up your marriage and hitching up with someone else right away.
2007-03-15 00:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you should and need to just go file for divorce.
2007-03-15 00:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pity you .... there WILL BE hassles.
2007-03-15 00:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋