ok so i will call them brian and andrew....i have known andrew going on 9 yrs...i love him with everything i have but were two different people...our lives collide with eachother..we have had our ups and downs as any couple but we always seem to find our way back to eachother..the only thing we really have in common is our love for eachother.....so can love conqueor all or is it only half the battle............and then there is brian....i have know him going on 3 yrs....he makes me laugh like no one has before and we are like two peas in a pod....we do everything together and he understands me to the fullest...he is everything any girl could ever want...but then there is something that wont let me give uip on andrew because i never want to wonder "what if"....what if i would have stayed with him...with brian i know what is ahead for me....with andrew im not sure but what i do know is that i love him..so do i follow my heart and go with andrew or do i follow my mind and go with brian
2007-03-14 17:16:24 · 13 answers · asked by cherrimimi 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
SIMPLE!!!! Listen to the old saying "you never know what you've got till it's gone"....take a "break" from both and see which one you TRULY miss being with. If you honestly can't imagine what it would be like to be without him, HE'S THE ONE! Good luck in love.
2007-03-14 19:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by imwiththeband 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if there are two guys that you can choose out of.. I would suggest to test them, to see how far they would go and to see how much they have for you. Or, you can leave them both, and have no one get anything and you can move on ( It's kinda stupid but yea... ) But if u want a definite answer, I suggest you to get with andrew, because you two always find each other back to each other and here's a little quote I heard before, " If you love something, let it go, and if it comes back, then that is how you know." Even if Brian understands you to the fullest and you get with him, know that Andrew is always going to be coming back at you every now and than, and you'll feel guilty for things. Give it a shot and test them. I hope this helps. P.S. follow what your heart says to you because that's the most important thing. Remember, the heart and brain.
2007-03-15 00:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by raymandapsycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Brian. If Andrew really loved you and wanted you, then you guys would not have had a on/off relationship. Its seems the Brian has been there for you all the way during the past 3 three years, therefore, I vote for Brian.
2007-03-15 01:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by msknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brian...is the one I would chose....I have been in what if situations myself, but at the end of the day you want to be with someone that you have more going then just "love" Love doens't pay the bills, love doesn't understand your personality and your quirks. Laughter is one of the most important things in this life. Two peas in a pod is the best thing. If he is everything a girl could ever want then don't be the one to miss out....remember the what if's are often LUST. Becareful and good luck! Don't let Brian slip away.
2007-03-15 02:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by a a a a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! There is no" what If" when you have been in a relationship with someone for 9 years! You pretty much know how it is and how it's gonna be. You've known Brian long enough to know if he is the "ONE". Sounds like you just dont want to hurt Andrew's feelings. I'd say " Go with Brian". You owe it to yourself not to have a rollercoaster of a relationship. Good LUCK! The answer seems obvious to me! BRian!
2007-03-15 00:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, I say. If you have to ask a question about "andrew" and you're having doubts, that should be your red flag. You could just as easily have "what if" thoughts about brian. Good luck!
2007-03-15 00:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u know i would say love conqueres all...but this is 2007 love cant conquer everything i say Brian
2007-03-15 12:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Crazygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brian cause you really like him
2007-03-15 00:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by dessie kool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to think about it and ask for advice on which to "choose," I'd guess your feelings for either of them aren't as strong as you think, otherwise you'd have done it already and chosen for yourself.
I wouldn't "choose" either.
You should wait until someone you have absolutely no doubts about, comes along.
2007-03-15 00:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why must you choose? Take both of them.
If you're talking about marriage, then that's a different thing. You need spies.
2007-03-15 00:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋