mom passed away 3 years ago and my moms stuff is in my basment we try to go thru when she comes over but i just cant do it very long i get burnt out emotionly? why whats the diff? the only two i know is that she is 18 and im 25 and im a christian and shes not she dosnt want anything to do with god?
2007-03-14 16:49:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no your both wrong im fine with my moms death god gave me a dream a week after her funeral and i havnt been sad since yeah i miss her, but faith has nothing to do with grieving people i want real answers not your uneducated guesse., yeah im a litle bitter right now
2007-03-14 16:58:09 · update #1
No two people are the same and will not respond the same. Your relationship with your Mom was different from your sister's. I use to cry in unusual situations like when I saw a marching band, or saw the wrestling team being driven through town on the firetrucks. Once I found out the reason I never had another problem with it. Anything that showed unity would set me off because I was raised alone in a foster home. Did you have unresolved things with Mom? Did you rely on her a lot emotionally? Death is not a forever good-bye, it is I'll see ya later. Thessalonians talks about Resurrection Morning when we will be raised. The answers to your heart can be found in Scripture. I recommend the King James Version as to me it is so beautifully written. My heart is with you. Mmm
2007-03-14 17:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were more attached to her because you were with her longer. Maybe you miss her more or you are just more emotional than your sister or all of the above.
Try to think of the good times you had with your mother & enjoy what possessions of hers you have left. Talk about them while going through them.
Maybe you should just sort them quickly - what you will give away or donate because neither of you wants the items. Then later go through the keepers. Try for once a week. Set a goal of 1/2 hr & if you are able to go over that time, fine. There's no hurry.
2007-03-14 20:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion has nothing to do with emotion. Obviously your sister has allowed herself to grieve properly over the last few years and has accepted the situation and is able to move on. You have to consider that your sister was a lot younger than you when your mother passed and in a way she lost a lot more than you. She lost an important figure at an impressionable age. Maybe you should look to yourself to find a way to say goodbye and move forward.
2007-03-14 16:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be because you were more emotionally attached to your mom; therefore you find it harder to let go.
Always know, that she'll always be with you; watching over you. At times, you may even be able to feel her presence.
Your sister probably faced her death right away & didn't go into denial. Thats probably why she has gotten over it now. There will come a time in her life, where she'll start searching for God & self enquiry... wondering why certain things happen to certain people. That's when you'll come in & guide her :)
2007-03-14 17:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Shobha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian you know that your Mom is with God and although you miss her she is not gone. Would you feel better if her things were gone so that you can have your memories and not have to deal with objects? Maybe your sister can get someone you trust to help her so that you do not have to be involved. Usable clothes and shoes and furnishings could be donated to women's shelters in memory of your Mom. Unlike your Mom's spirit, her earthly possessions are temporary so maybe it would make you feel better to have them put to good use.
I'm so sorry, you are way too young to lose your Mom!
2007-03-14 16:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attached to religion because maybe your mom has something to do with it.
Your sister maybe got angry with God because of your mom thing it gets to happened, and you trust that he took charge of your mother.
Missing someone you loved, specially a mother is something you get to handle, letting your mum stuff go to help some people who need may help you to get over it, if you don't want anyone else using it, burn it it may help you to say "Thanks for everything, i will never forget all what we went through, but i know you're better there and it makes me happy"
2007-03-14 17:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Metzikat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it yourself,for yourself,life is for the living,deal with the stuff and you will feel better eventually.Let those who are gone go and you will be able to get on with your life.Your sister's way is not your way.Take charge of you.
2007-03-14 17:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by kevin k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hanging on to things that upset you this much is not healthy...get rid of it..its time to move on...I'm sure your Mom would want that!
2007-03-14 16:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered it partway...her lack of faith leads her to shut down emotionally.
2007-03-14 16:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋