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i been married for 9 yrs and very happy in love for the past 7 yrs. but the past 18 months my marriage is really going down the hill. we have problems with our marriage. My husband ruined the marriage. I found out that he met some lady. we tried to work thing out but still the love is not there...so we both agree to be separated for the past 4 months..we allowed to date other but NO Divorce...now i just met a guy who really care about me..i do have feeling for him. I was not happy for the past 18 mos and after i met him. i started to enjoy my life again..he never been marry no kid. He really sweet and caring person. I told him about my marriage and he always there for me...he really show me his love..but i can't be with him. i still marriage and i can't get divorce..i don't want him to waste his time on me..the more he care about me is the more i want to push him to another girls. i don't know what to do..
what should i do? i can't get divorce...i don't want to hurt him.. HELP

2007-03-14 16:43:28 · 8 answers · asked by samantha81 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

8 answers

What did you ever expect to have happen out of all this?

2007-03-14 17:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1 0

some labels are ok, yet some are offensive. It relies upon on the form you experience. i do no longer concepts being noted as a guy-lover, gay or queer because of the fact no rely what the label, all of it skill the comparable, that i like adult men in a actual and emotional way and that i'm involved in them. no longer something, no person, or no label will replace that.

2016-10-02 03:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You don't have to get married to him. You can be with him without getting married, you can move in with him, you can be fully commited to him and he to you and you can have his children and be a family, if that's what you two want. The piece of paper and silly ritual and party is just to represent meant to represent these sorts of things publicly. You're marriage already proved that having a wedding and getting a legal document doesn't really mean anything!

2007-03-14 16:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Just because you can't get married doesn't mean that you can't be with him. I hate this way of thinking. Personally, I don't believe in marriage exactly because of situations like this. You can be in love with someone and happily spend the rest of your life together. You don't need some priest to legally bond you together... Just be with him and leave it at that.

2007-03-14 16:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Why can't you get divorced? If you are not happy with your husband you should not be with him. You should do what makes you happy and if it is being with this other guy then go for it!

2007-03-14 16:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 6 · 1 0

Get a divorce or quit seeing him. If you care about him, be fair, play fair, treat him like you would want to be treated in this situation.

2007-03-14 17:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by curious74432 3 · 0 0

u are worth this man's love and dont u dare for a second think otherwise. i doubt ur husband would push away his new lover that he has immense feelings for. if ur lover can stick it out through this, keep him. he'll prolly stay around for u. few guy s would and the ones that would DEFINATELY shouldn't be pushed away into another girls arms, esp when they may hrut him

2007-03-14 16:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by luv_hun_nay 2 · 0 2

good grief, quit the whining!
stay or go.
what ever...

2007-03-14 16:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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