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once upon a time...
there was a little girl who witnessed her brother attempt suicide many

times. she got beat with a belt daily and picked up by her hair for

eating too many chips. she got locked out of her house when she was 8

because she wanted to pick out her own outfit. she was told storys of

her father having sex with other women. she was sexually abused by her

boarderline retarded brother. she was made to sit in the time out chair

for hours at a time. her mother tried an exorcism on her and always

scared her with talks of demons. so her father eventually took control

and took her away from the abuse. her father was an alcoholic. she was

always left alone while her father and "step mom" went out to party.

she had been brought up very religiously and always tried to tell her

father what he was doing was wrong. this caused much emotional stress

on her and the ulcers continued along with breaking out in terrible

welps. constantly left alone with no one to talk to she would of rather

been abused. her step mother hated her and made the little girl afraid

to even leave her room. constant tension everyday made her feel as

though she was in a house of strangers. one night the step mother tried

choking her and her father saw the whole thing and denied what the step

mom had done. she also took pictures of the little girls room when it

was messy so she could prove to people how worthless the little girl

was. she recorded her phone conversations and was always scheming

against the little girl. there was never a place to hide and relax for

the little girl everyday was a battle to just survive through the day.

this made her feel very insecure. she had lost all hope and was very

depressed. eventually the step mother and her father divorced. the

father soon realized his "ex wife" had been planning to take his money

all along. she stole around 160,000 dollars.
things finally were starting to get better for the little girl who was

now no longer little.
most people dont know anything about this, she hides it. no one knows

the story behind everything. she appears to be normal and hapy but she

will always carry the scars with her.

2007-03-14 16:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by sasha b 1 in Social Science Psychology

9 answers

sounds like this person has had a really horrible life. but thats all behind her now. she needs to take all the horrible experiences and try to help other from her experiences. dont look back look forward. the possible disorders could rang anywhere from ptsd, social anxiety, trust issues, abuse issues, personality dosorders, and so on.

if shes still dealing with these horrible experiences she needs to seek a psychiatrist and get help.

2007-03-14 23:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by ! 1 · 0 0

I think the young woman should try not to dwell to much on her past. Because she won't see whats in front of her if she's always looking back, and will inevitably trip and fall if she already hasn't done so. I know a little boy who grew up with an alcoholic father who paid him no mind. The boy was to him just a cheque in the mail so he can drink.The boy was molested by aunt's , uncles, cousins and friends of the "family". He grew up teased, ignored and hated. He to felt insecure and uncomfortable with everything in life.The more he thought about it the more bad emotions filled his head. Then he tripped. His obstruction, alcohol. But he was to drunk to feel the pain. So he started falling on purpose. The now young man grew to realize he reminded himself of his father. The epiphonic thought changed him, for he did not want his offspring to go through what he suffered. He wanted his unborn child/children to grow up happy. So he no longer looked back. Stumbled a few times, but who doesn't. At least he didn't fall. If I were to give advice. I would advise the young woman to think about what makes or would make her happy. If nothing comes to mind. Think harder. Every being on this planet has the ability to heal themselves both physically and mentally.

2007-03-14 18:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by illuminati 1 · 0 0

Emotional scars are always caried especialy when it comes to the extreamity of the experiences you described. the positive side will be that she can become stronger from these experiences if she will embrace it as such.

i have seen that the more pain one goes through the more powerful their brains and will power can be used; maturity can be gained from this.

2007-03-14 17:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by ldsironman 5 · 0 0

Reading that story is a huge waste of time since there is nothing anybody that reads it can do but maybe get emotional, which does not do anything but make people around them pissed off at them.

2007-03-14 16:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by beefcake 3 · 0 0

Try to be a little more discreet. Let the reader make these assumptions from clues you drop here and there.

2007-03-14 16:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Willem V 3 · 0 1

it is very sad that the girl has no one to trust with her pain but it is understandable that this hurt has remained unrevealed.how do you learn to trust after all of that betrayal?
i hope she finds peace of mind.a trustworthy friend,hope and love'

2007-03-14 16:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0 0

I hope she get therapy to recover from child abuse.

2007-03-14 16:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0 0

I feel sorry for the little girl. she was very mistreated.

2007-03-14 16:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0 0

this is sad ,this lady is probably dealing with this everyday ,this fuels her actions,yes she carries this or repressed

2007-03-14 16:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by jujuire 1 · 0 0

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