i dont but i already told my friend advice but others think its ok. ITS NOT!! tell me what you think?
2007-03-14 16:37:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NOT! NOT! NOT! NOT!
Where is mom and dad on this mess?
2007-03-14 16:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's ok. Any 19 year old who wants to date a 14 year old must be a loser. Even if your friend is mature for her age she's not emotionally ready for the kind of relationship a 19 year old wants. I'm speaking as a mother, but when I was 14 men would hit on me and the first thing I thought was (what's wrong with him that he needs to date immature girls?) The minute she says no to him he'll ditch her. Tell her to be careful.
2007-03-14 23:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by jeni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no!! I mean what in the world does a 19 year old want with a 14 year old?? I could answer that question, but by the sound of it you may be a little too young to hear it. So tell your friend if he/she wants to be a number then go for it, but if he/she respects themselves then they will forget about the whole idea!!
2007-03-14 23:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sick on the 19 year olds part. At 19 u are practically grown and in college. 14 yr olds are naive and wanna be cool by talkin 2 someone that much older. I have been there and done that. Wut can the 2 of u possibly have in common with ur age difference? That is ridiclous. 4 the record, the 19 year old can be arrested cuz in Texas, that quite illegal! Please dont do things ur going 2 regret. If u love her u need 2 tell her parents...dont let her get hurt, cuz thats exactly wuts going 2 happen...write an annomous note or sumthin...she needs 2 calm her fast *** down b4 she ends up pregnant, dead, or raped...sounds terrible, but its the truth
2007-03-14 23:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by 1hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something not right about a 19 year old finding a 14 year old attractive. Not only that, it is illegal if they have sex - the 10 year old can be charged with statutory rape. All that has to happen is the parents or anyone else pressing charges.
2007-03-14 23:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh deffinetely not! Thats like rape if he/she touches you and does more than touching. Thats just disgusting! You cant find someone your own age or something? I mean if it was a 16 year old dating a 19 year old, thats better cause closer in age you know? But 14 YEARS OLD!!!! EW! Yeeeahhh I suggest you let the 14 year old go cause thats sick!
2007-03-14 23:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by *HILWA* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not ok furthermore it's illegal. I don;t kow if it's your friend that's 14 but tell her that he needs to either wait until she turns 18 or he can move on. I'm not one to bash people on age but waht does a 19 young man want with a 14 girl? It sounds like he may have something else on his mind if you know what I mean.
2007-03-14 23:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO!!! The 14 year old is still a child!!! Is this person a TREE JUMPER/. They should be with someone their own age. The 19 year old should be locked up. SAVE THE CHILDREN FROM the pervs!!!!!!
2007-03-14 23:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by mocharvelous1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of couse not. That's like an 11 year old dating a 16 year old. It's almost disgusting.
2007-03-14 23:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Zasm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any 19 guy who goes after a 14 year old girl is a pervert...nuff said.
2007-03-14 23:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i agree, the guy is a little too old for her... 5 years is a big difference when you're only 14, but as you get older... the 5 years gets smaller and smaller, and when you're 50 and your partner is 45. that is not big deal. because you've leave almost the same amount of time. but when you're young,,, the years are longer sttretched out....
I say too many yesr differance,,, date someone you're own age...
2007-03-14 23:42:47 · answer #11 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋