my Sag boy broke up with me 3 weeks ago (was a long distance relationship of 1.5 yrs). he still cares about me and treat me as a friend now. (people say that Sags do feel sad inside the heart without showing it?)
I love him much, wanna get him back, at least to be his special 1.
Sum people suggest tat i should be his good friend without talking about the 'love issue', coz Sags value friendships, and it'd the main value for him to consider a relationship back with me.
but as far as i know, Sags also have a clear concept of what is over, of whom they miss as a friend or whom they miss as someone special. so should i stop contacting him now? so that he may feel like he has lost me, and so that he may miss me our past happy moments?
or should i be friend and stand by him? but how can he miss me if i hang around? how's the posibility for a Sag to consider getting back to me again if he knows he can't find someone who loves him that much like i do and we were so hapy together?
thanks!
2007-03-14 15:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
no I dont think so!!!! Sagitarians value friendships and with u breaking off with him it could break every thing uve ever had, even ur friendship!
2007-03-14 16:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by HeArTbRoKeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sags value friendship and the more true and good it is, the deeper and more loyal it becomes. If you break a Sag's heart or end it, they may never want you back! A Sag will be on to something else in their life (even though they may be hurting inside). Yes, we Sags don't always like to show our real pain and talk about our personal problems. We fear commitment, but if and when we find the right one, we can be quite devoted and happy to stay where were are for long-term. You would have to be a very strong, independent, fun, adventurous, humorous, understanding and tolerant person with a thick skin for the raw truth! We like those that are secure with themselves too and we don't do well with clingy, needy people. If you look desperate, it will totally turn us off. We don't care for games either.
2007-03-14 18:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a toughie - you are pretty much on the mark w/ how Sag's are (i'm one) - - let him know you can and will be there for him at ANYTIME - but, that's it - it's pretty much his call - Do Not constantly call him, if he misses you, he will call you, sometimes it takes a little while - but, if you truly love him - i think calling every other week is fine - any more, you will look desperate, and Sag's are VERY turned off by that.
I hope I wasn't too harsh - I wish you lots-o-luck - - - we Sag's can be VERY difficult.
2007-03-14 16:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly, never turn your back on a saggie! your best bet is to still talk to him and if you really want to get him play up the whole "friend" thing, treat him like a bro... saggies fear commitment, they crave and fear it, the "L word" can scare the **** out of one, even if they say it first! no joke, we are fickle creatures, with cold feet and childish hearts
2007-03-14 16:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by dread_siren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋