i basically have low self esteem, lack of confidence, nd am insecure. i bring myself down especially wen it comes to guyz. can some1 tell me how to bring myself cheery? i usually get really sad when i realize that i'm too shy to get the guy's attention. (and keep in mind the guy likes me 2! but im still shy!)
2007-03-14 15:27:10 · 3 answers · asked by brianna17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just have to make yourself be more outspoke. What are you afraid of? Especially if the guy already likes you. Just talk to him.
2007-03-14 15:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just like you. I am 33 years old, I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck, and balding. I am still a virgin. Nobody likes me because I am ugly. I have no friends. I have no self-esteem and no confidence. I am a downright loser.
My advice: Don't be like me. You have a lot to live for. Just have a positive attitude and feel good about yourself and don't be afraid to talk to guys.
2007-03-14 22:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by NJboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is the same as you... what you need to do is focus on your good traits instead of always finding negative things about yourself... what's important is to be happy... pray for guidance and keep your chin up!!! Smile and the guys will notice, they like fun and bubbly girls... trust me
2007-03-14 22:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Casey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋