Ok, so my friend was talking about how her house got forked like 3 weeks ago and stuff, and i was sitting at the table and there were like 5 other people at the table, she turns to me and says, Rachel, don't say anything to anyone because stuff has been going around. I seriously was so shocked that she singled me out in front of all those other people and told me not to say anything. She has been trying to figure out who did it, and she finally found out who did it, and i am good friends with the girl who did its best friend. so i guess she thought i has said something to her or whatever. I was so pissed that she singled me out, especially since i haven't said a word about it. What should i do, should i say something back, or just let it go. I mean i almost started crying when she did that, i really got my feelings hurt. I talked to my mom and she said i should say something, but i dont know if i have the guts. what do you think?
2007-03-14 15:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yea you don't have the guts you missed the best oppurtinity. Don't worry thou most people make that mistake. Just remeber when someone calls you on something and your in the right, DEFEND yourself. Because nothing makes a person think there right better then silence. Common mistake we all have to burn ourselves a couple times on that before we realize that the reason it hurts is because we could of done something better. Its selfish to think that you deserve better, people get upset, don't take it personal. At the sametime don't just set there and take it.
2007-03-16 10:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋