2007-03-14 15:02:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I learnt that you have to let go or be consumed.You have to take your power back.It wasn't easy and still isn't but you just live one day at a time.
2007-03-14 15:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It has been so long, I don't think about it much anymore. It has definitely shaped much of the un-trusting person that I am today, and sometimes the memories do come flooding back and leave me in pain, but it gets easier just to brush them off, especially when some of the abusers have acknowledged their mistakes.
2007-03-14 22:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~MIMI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't! You have done nothing wrong. It's not you. Go to therapy. It may feel that the pain is going to kill you, but trust me, if you can handle it" and it is painful," I won't lie. After I went throughout it I made sure my daughter went there also. You have to learn that it was not your fault. You have to learn that you are good person in your own right. In other words what you have to learn is to like yourself and then learn to love yourself! Yes it will happen. It happened to me. Guess what, now if I want something, be it cosmetics or whatever, I buy them. I do not know your circumstances, so maybe money is tight. Anyway therapy is the best, and just tough it out, it is worth all the tears. Just learn "IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT"
2007-03-14 22:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by blackice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With years, those memories seem to be easier to cope with. One doesn't think of it as often. There are moments however, when the past comes rushing back and leaves you breathless with terror.
I always pat myself on the back, though. at this point in my life I don't think I could go through the things that I went through as a child.
2007-03-14 22:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
your question open an old sore. But when i thing of the goodness of Jesus my soul cry out allayluh i thank God for saving me. Because the good things of my parents overflow the bad, and it make me feel so good. they were in their eighty when they when to Jesus, their though were of Jesus and me. My mother abuse was due to drink and love, i understood at the age of 10, that my mother want to hurt my father, i look just like him to she took it out on me. But, i knew she love me. My father brought me a dog that was the end of the abuse smile. God forgive so must we. God heal all wounds, put that behind you and go on with the good life has for u. you dont need drugs or booze, just Jesus, God bless you.
2007-03-14 22:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by esther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in the Lord (at least your still alive to talk about it). Many times you are given trials not only to make YOU stronger but to make someone ELSE stronger later on. Get a sense of humor and enjoy every calm moment of your life. Laugh! You were given a sense of humor to heal yourself. Make the most of it. :D
2007-03-14 22:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol.
2007-03-14 22:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason it always keeps popping up in my mind but I try to over power the thoughts by doing nice things for others.. And try to remember to always forgive... you may not forget but you have to forgive and try to do the best you can to not look back. Try really hard not to keep looking back.
2007-03-14 22:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Laura C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does verbal abuse count? I'm in therapy now, from going 1x a week to going once a month.
and guess what...this time it really did start w/ mom!
2007-03-14 22:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was sexually abused when I was a kid. It didnt bother me tho because I joke about it a lot now with my friends.
2007-03-14 22:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋