Is it natural if you have to be taught how to do sex?

Question

I know I'm not a lesbian because I don't know how to have sex with a woman. Do straight men know how to have gay sex or would they need instruction? You can teach yourself to like anything. That doesn't make it natural.

Answer 1

Say what?
Do you play with yourself? (seriously, now) I bet nobody taught you how to do THAT. So it must be "Natural"

If you know how to pleasure yourself, you have all the basic lesbian skills you need. Just do unto another, while they do unto you.

Answer 2

I don't think anyone knows how to have sex naturally. If you raised up a straight boy in complete isolation and as a young man showed him a woman and said "What can you do with her body?", chances are he's not going to have an answer. He'll have to investigate her body, gauge her reactions, and there'll probably be a lot of groping and touching until things sort of miraculously happen, as they always do. No straight person comes out of the womb saying "Penis in vagina!". Why else do we have sex education, but to tell people how heterosexual sex happens and what it is?

Sex for everyone is a process of trial and error, just made a little easier because now we educate and teach people about it. And the reasons you don't know how to have sex with a woman are probably because you don't desire a woman. Long before a gay man knows what to do with another gay man, or a lesbian with another woman, they both know that they want to be doing stuff, pleasuring, being pleasured . . . doesn't everyone just have the basic desire to be with the people they are attracted to? We find out later, as we lovingly explore their bodies, the amazing and wonderful things we can do with them.

I hope that helps you to understand. Homosexuality is quite natural, because homosexuality isn't the act of having gay sex, but rather having same-sex desires (i.e. you can be gay without ever having had gay sex, right?). Nobody teaches you to have those desires- hence they are natural, even if the sex you later have is taught and learned.

Oh, and P.S.- I really don't think you can teach yourself to like anything. Could you teach yourself to like women? I've been trying in vain to learn to like cauliflower, hardcore metal music, and turtlenecks my whole life . . . ain't nothing doing. I just don't believe it.