Friend Trouble. Whats your opinion and what should I do?

Question

So here's the problem. Last weekend I left with a friend to go to another friends house. But it was around 10p.m at night so we turned back and my friend really needed to get home so she got mad and I left her behind. I looked back and there was no one behind me. A few minutes later some gangster wanna be's wanted me to get in their car. So I got freaked out and called another friend so she would stay on the phone with me. So turns out her mom found out and on Monday morning at school the friend I called said she wasnt allowed to talk to me or hang out with me. So I just walked away and said bye. From there I couldnt understand if she was really my friend she would still talk to me at school because its not like her mom spys on her. But now she thinks im ignoring her and thinks it all my fault when I didnt do anything wrong. I respect her moms decision but she shouldnt judge me if she doesnt know me. So what should I do?

Answer 1

Hi ,
Wow this one is kind of a toughy. Put your worries behind you and rest your weary head. Your friend is getting the right kind of pressure by her Mom. Really it isn't that the Mom wants to judge you , she only has to think back to when she was your age and all the close calls that she had. I am a Mom of two teen-age boys, 16 and 18. I grew up in a family of six children where I was the youngest, my Dad was a disabled veteran and Mom was pretty burnt out on parenting , of course back then I could not comprehend that because Mom cooked great food, washed our clothes she did alot and a wonderful woman but she had blinders on when it came to integrating herself deeply in where I was at emotionally, socially and that's why I'm asking you to slow down. Your other friend did the right thing by turning back and going home. You should not be walking by yourself. Learn from this and stick with a friend physically by going back with her to her house,call your Mom or if your Mom doesn't want to be bothered that's a really hard position for a young girl to be in. I truly think you need to find a safe hobby in a safe environment. In the mean-time tell your friend you won't call her after hours and wouln't have but you were calling because you were frightened. She may tell her Mom that and the Mom may give you a cut-off time for calling I tell my son to only talk ten minutes on cell and no calls after 10 pm when he is grounded for something. Good luck!

Answer 2

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