Well,ive been in a lesbian relationship for 1 year and 3 months,and suddenly we broke up.usually when we broke up,we went back together,but this time its different,we nvr went back together.its me,she kept begging me to go back to her.but some things just make me said no.Her parents..they called,heard abt the break up.They said ive made a good decision and just stop messaging her,be firm and just go get a good boyfriend.and keep saying no to her if she keep begging me to come back.And asked me to keep quiet,don't say a word to her.Sigh.i cant listen to my heart.i don't know what to do.She keep crying the whole time.She loves me,i know that.And i really love her too.But part of me says i should let go because its for the best for both of us to get a boyfriend.But she doesnt want to.what should i do?My mind's in a mess.=(
2007-03-14 14:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
honey, if you really love this girl like you say you do, you don't need a boyfriend. you've got her. how is it better for you to get a boyfriend? it seems like her parents are influencing your decision becuase they don't like your relationship. try talking to her instead.
2007-03-14 15:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut contact for the moment. If she is good for you, then she will understand that time is needed apart longer. By having space, you need to , in that time, find area s of peace. Wether in a park , or at a lake, somewhere peacefull.
By allowing the peace to flow through you, then shall you know answers.
Lay alone, close your eye s, and keep awake. And just let all your problems float away , imagine it so on a cloud.
Then feel peace of nothing come into you.
If she will not give you time, (as much time as you need to become at peace), then that gives you the answer to completely cut contact with her, for if she is like that with this, and will not respect you enough to give you peace, then how much will she give you in other important matters?
You decide. And know that contact with her while you try to decide, is not showing your Own controll over yourself.
Decide who controlls You .
2007-03-14 21:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If SHE isn't right for you, that's fine--but getting a boyfriend will NOT stop you from being attracted to women. Do what's best for YOU.
2007-03-14 21:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look I just say you that if you really love her, you must find her and back to love each other, it`s all
2007-03-14 21:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by pacho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love her??? do you want a boyfriend??? would thst make you happy to be with a guy??
ask yourself these questions
2007-03-14 21:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by cmhurley64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋