Sometimes I find that I climax way too soon with a new dude...especially if it's the first time. Does anyone else have any tips to "chillin" out with a new partner that you just find WAY too hot??
2007-03-14 14:29:24 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hm, well, masterbating more might help you. I've had friends who were able to last longer when they increased the amount of times they did it in a week, month, etc. Exercising can also help as well, as it tends to boost stamina overall.
As for, chillin, you might try going to a nuetral setting, such as a concert, or wherever your interests lie. Or if you mean sexually, you might consider incorporating a bit of play to help you cool down. If you know his likes you could engage in other things like mild spanking or roleplaying while one's stamina rebuilds.
2007-03-14 14:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle_Wills 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ejaculation can be considered premature when it occurs 30 seconds to 4 minutes into sex, depending on different cultures, countries and experts. Behavioural techniques can help you delay orgasm. Learn here https://tr.im/8anZh
These include the start-and-stop method and the squeeze technique. A combination of these techniques along with sexual counselling and medication (either using an anaesthetic cream or an oral tablet) is recommended.
2016-02-14 23:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using 2 condoms instead of one. It reduces sensation which will slow down your climax.
2007-03-14 14:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋