Should I tell?????

Question

Should I tell????
I haven't gotten my period today when I should have. I am scared of being pregnant. Should I tell my bf or wait it out. We are 16. I am on the pill and we used a condom that didn't break. But i ALWAYS get my period today and I didn't.

Answer 1

It seems like you were pretty careful so you might not be pregnant. Whatever the outcome dont tell him until you are for sure

Answer 2

Dont worry hun. Stressing over the possibility of being pregnant can cause delays in your menstrual cycle. If you havent gotten it in a week, then take a test. If its negative, then give it another week. Take another test. If negative, then u need to see your OB.
U have to take into consideration that last month was a short month. Two less days? Did u consider that as well?
There are numerous things that it could be. Changes in diet, excercise and stress are all factors. Trust me, been dealing with it for 20 years.
Just do what i said, and i hope at your young age that you are not pregnant. This would be a real shame.
Continue to be responsible, and if you cannot obstain from sex, then perhaps adding an additional contraceptive, such as foam, or spermicide along with a condom would be beneficial. Get on the pill as well if its an option.
Good luck to u hun.

Answer 3

February was a short month. Maybe you'll start in the next couple of days. One thing that is certain about being a woman is that no matter how long your cycles have been like clockwork, they can change when they want, and do. Wait a few days to a week, then tell him and go to the clinic together. I know it sounds crazy but try not to think about it too much, you doubled on the protection, you should be pretty well safe, the more stress you're under, the less likely it's gonna show up even you're not pregnant.

Answer 4

Wait it out, there is no reason to assume you're pregnant. Especially if you used a condom, AND you're on the pill. It's very unlikely you're pregnant and honestly, if you guys are being this careful and you're a day late and you tell him you think you're pregnant, you might scare him.

Just wait it out and don't worry, you're doing everything right. If you don't get your period soon then take a pregnancy test either at home or go into a planned parenthood. They will have a more accurate test that can tell sooner, and probably charge very little if anything at all.

Relax =)

Answer 5

I wouldn't worry about it right now. Yeah, sometimes I'm a few days late too. Just, wait a few days, and if you still haven't started, go to a Pregnancy Crisis Center and they will give you a free pregnancy test, info on pregnany, babies, etc. and most will not ask you to give any information that they would call your parents { if you live with them } or anything. But, I highly DO NOT advise "Planned Parenthood ", that is not a Pregnancy Crisis Center and they will not HELP you, rather they will just advise an abortion, which is a horrible and scary thing. If you are pregnant, please do not opt to abort the baby, please think about keeping the baby, but if that is completely not an option, please adopt it out, there are thousands of couples that would love to adopt your baby, I have several friends that are adopted and have grown up in a happy and loving home, with wonderful parents. But if your not pregnant, just, please be careful in the future, I am also a teenager and I know you are in a scary situation right now, please don't make any bad or quick decisions that you will regret very much. I have read many stories about girls that have aborted their babies, and have felt guilty and extremely remorseful, their entire lives. Versus, I have also read a lot about girls that have kept their babies, adopted them out, or let a parent or older sibling or friend raise it. Whatever you choose, just remember, it a babies life, so think about it. I will pray for you.

Answer 6

I would definatley wait a week and then, if your period hasn't started, take a test.

Try not to worry too much (easier said then done, right!) sometimes stress can cause your period to be a little late...and there are few things as stressful as a potential teen pregnancy! So take a deep breath and try to stay calm for the next few days and I would imagine everything should be fine.

by the way, it's nice to read that you two are being so careful!

Answer 7

I wouldn't jump the gun just yet. You could be delaying your period because you are worried about it. Stress can play a very important role in our bodies. If you are worried about it, you should not be having sex. You are so young! If you are lucky and do get your period, you should think about how you felt when you were one day late, and how your parents would feel if you had to tell them you were pregnant. Do you really want that responsibility at your young age! or to even have to go through that and decide to give the baby up? Please wait until you are married to continue your sex life!

Answer 8

First of all,don't panic just yet,periods can be like that.Your period could have started by the time you read this! Also,stress,like thinking you may be pregnant could delay it.Confusing isn't it? You have used your contraception properly so you are most likely not pregnant.I think you should tell your boyfriend,you had sex together,why not worry about the consequences together.I would bet that you aren't pregnant,relax,but include your boyfriend in these discussions,if you love him enough to have sex, you should be able to trust him with your worries about it!

Answer 9

Take a test!!
Only way....
I missed my period and just found out 4 hrs ago at the doctors that I am pregnant.

Answer 10

Don't freak out! Sometimes this is due to a hormone imbalance caused by stress. But if the month finishes and you don't see your period i think you should inform your boyfriend.