My boyfriend is concidering breaking up with me but is unsure, what do i do?

Question

We've been going out for two years and things have been rocky between us latly, i wont lie.

im still in love with him but hes unsure if he loves me.

He said either way he wants to work on it, but doesnt know if hes staying just to make me happy...

I dont know how to handel any of it, or if theres anything i can do to persuade him... help? :-/

Answer 1

Someone who you have to convince to stay with you does not deserve you. You don't want to love someone who doesn't love you. Break it off. Unfortunately for all relationships, almost all start off great, and then as soon as it starts to get steady, many couples either break it off because things start to get boring, some will continue and whether they are off or on they can't let each other go because they're so used to one another, and only a few will go on to living together and being happy. But anyways, don't make too much effort in trying to persuade him. If he's not sure, give him time. If he takes too much time, there's the big hint. but always remember there are still other people out there. some are just waiting to catch the opportunity of love with you so don't wait for someone who isn't sure of himself.

Answer 2

if you convince or pressure him into staying with you itll end in tears

he shouldnt have to think about whether or not he loves you he should know, take a break from each other or split

Answer 3

give him the final push by dumping his a**. you deserve someone who values you :)


goodluck hun.