Hello, i been having anoying problems with my friend because somehow his gf apparently is jelous of me, i mean.....does that happen?...because a friend and well a gf/bf are in diff areas (i think) so i dont know why is she jelous. sometimes i do see that we leave her off a conversation since its stuff that me and my friend know about like cars and stuff, but man she gets anoyed. Now it got worse since she took my friend's cell away, and most of times when i call her to ask for him, she makes up eccuses which all end up in "so he is gonna be hanging out with me all day".
what could i do about that?...so far i just think she is a b*tch
2007-03-14 13:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by Mark-0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it seems like your friend's gf is very clingy and possesive. thats really unhealthy in relationships. she needs to get a life of her own. she should not be jealous of you at all. guys need their own time with their boys too. they cant always be around with their girl. Just like girls need their own time with their girls. im not sure if you guys normally just dont have her around in your convos or what, but you should just invite her to join whatever you guys are doing to let her feel that you guys are nice people. she probably wouldnt be acting the way she is if she didnt think you guys are stealing her bf away from her. anyway, you need to tell this to your friend and let him deal with her.
2007-03-14 13:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels like you're taking her guy away. Don't think she's a b*tch because a lot of people do that same thing! I know I did, I hated it when my husband would go off with his friend(s) and leave me out of things. That is the worst thing that can be done is leaving someone out. Maybe talk about something that she, too would be interested in. Try hanging out together and doing stuff you ALL like to do. From peronal experience I know that it is hard to be put off to the side by my boyfriends "best friend". Friends are forever, but that could be their future together, too.
2007-03-14 13:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have 3. 2 are men and one female. She become jealous of my courting with those men using fact it reminded her of what i become like in college. Which to make an prolonged tale short is undesirable. To counteract that, I only spent particularly much less time with those men. cutting them out might have harm extra effective than help thinking i might have lost 2 good acquaintances and she or he might have seen our friendship decline as her fault. As for the female who she become jealous of, I only had to cajole her that this female had no pastime in me. So I have been given them at the same time and have been given them speaking. Plus, she set up a double date along with her boyfriend. That exceedingly plenty knocked each jealous feeling she had out.
2016-11-25 20:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her a$$...welcome to a woman's world. We're very jelous, but taking his cell phone away isn't right.He shouldn't choose some girl over his best friend.Try to have a talk with him.
2007-03-14 13:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what her problem is and ask her for suggestions of solutions. Sounds like she should be placing her anger towards the bf and not you. Did the bf lose his balls? Bf needs to set boundaries, unless he likes it this way, which means your a*s out.
2007-03-14 13:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask the girl somtimes does she wanna go with and if u know any other girls make them friends and ask yo friend does he really like this girl if he dosent spend time with her
2007-03-14 13:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by lil_mom29102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋