ok well here it goes. i came home after six years of military service. i dont know where anybody is from highschool the few i have found are stoned or gone. and since gettin stoned is not on my to do list that rules that out. when i was in the army i never lacked friends. i have contact with an old budy living a few hours away. i guess my question now is what to do. i just turned 25 today and i have no one to go fishing golfing or hunting with. its kind of depressing. all i have is my son. which isnt bad dont get me wrong. but i cant take him to do those things yet. i have someone who might fill the relationship gap in my life but only time and effort will truely tell on that. but i miss the male friends i had in the service. i dont know what to do. and im getting board on my weeks off the rig. can anyone help me on some sugestions on how to fix this
2007-03-14 13:44:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with DUTCH, babe. You know you want to go back in the military and you know those who are important will support you. I will use your words against you and say... you know what you want..what are you waiting for??? I will support you no matter what. SEE YOU IN 4 DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 01:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are going through an early mid-life crisis...
sorry to say but you need to get out there and meet new people.
your job makes it hard to socialize with 'real' people. and when you get home. you have to be a daddy and take care of baby.
that doesn't leave much time for anything else, or anyone else.
guess what i'm trying to say is that for most of your adult years you only knew one thing and that was the military. now you are not there, and you feel lost and alone. you either need to go back to what you know or learn to be happy where you are.
thing is you can take advice from everyone,but no one knows what's best for MJ but MJ.
good luck in finding what it is that you need.
your true friends will always back you up no matter what. because you got it like that.
2007-03-15 08:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Every since I left the military after my 4 years, I have regretted it. You will never have that many male friends again. You already know there is nothing like it. If you didn't like what you were doing you can all ways change careers in the service, but unless you are really tied down. Get back in. Otherwise get in school. Make hay while your still young.
2007-03-15 00:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dutch 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHOA! youre out of the army?.that must of been tough on your son.Dont worrie just yet ..a women will come when the time is right.You are doing the right thing right now for taking care of your son.
2007-03-15 18:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy, no matter what me and ur family want u to do, do what u think is best for u even going back to the military, and y the heck didnt u tell me it was ur bday there smart one. go and have a good time, o and get on im soon if u can i need to talk to u about something
2007-03-14 20:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by dark and demented little angel 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OMG, Happy Birthday sweetheart!
what are you talking about hun?, you already have a good job.
relax sweetheart, take it easy. If you feel bored then go to school or learn from home. I believe you can do anything baby.
2007-03-14 20:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sabine 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋