can someone say something to make me feel better, I feel really sad, my grandma just died?

Question

I miss her alot. My family was planning to meet her in hong kong this summer. the trip is now canceled. My grades also have been down a bit. can someone cheer me up also could u please answer my questions which I have previously asked. Thanks in advance. have a nice day everyone. R.I.P grandma.

Answer 1

I'm so sorry to hear that your grandmother died.
As a grandmother myself, I know she wouldn't want you to grieve for her. She would want you to remember her with a smile and laughter~~not tears.
The greatest tribute you can pay to your grandmother is to pass on her legacy of love by being there for those who will miss her and going on with your life knowing that where ever you go or whatever you do...she will be with you.
Bless You,
Linda

Answer 2

how about a little joke to make you feel better.

A father passing by his son's bedroom was astonished to see the bed nicely made up and everything neat and tidy.

Then he saw an envelope propped up prominently on the pillow. It was addressed, "Dad". With the worst premonition, he opened the envelope and read the letter with trembling hands:

Dear Dad,

It is with great regret and sorrow that I'm writing you. I had to elope with my new girlfriend because I wanted to avoid a scene with you and Mom.

I've been finding real passion with Joan and she is so nice. I knew you would not approve of her because of all her piercings, tattoos, her tight motorcycle clothes and because she is so much older than I am but it's not only the passion, Dad, she's pregnant.

Joan says that we are going to be very happy. She owns a trailer in the woods and has a stack of firewood, enough for the whole winter. We share a dream of having many more children.

Joan has opened my eyes to the fact that marijuana doesn't really hurt anyone. We'll be growing it and trading it with the other people in the commune for all the cocaine and ecstasy we want.

In the meantime, we'll pray that science will find a cure for AIDS so Joan can get better; she sure deserves it!

Don't worry Dad, I'm 15 years old now and I know how to take care of myself. Someday, I'm sure we'll be back to visit so you can get to know your grandchildren.

Your son, Chad

P.S. Dad, none of the above is true. I'm over at Tommy's house. I just wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than the report card that's in my desk drawer.

Answer 3

, I don't know what your previous questions were, so I can't help you with that, I would just like to offer my condolences, on the death of your Grandmother. I don't think there is anything, anyone can say to make you feel better, of course you are sad to lose someone you loved, that is what makes you human. I remember when my grandmother died, everyone was so unhappy, but strangely, I was not, I loved her so much, and she was in too much pain, from cancer, that I was relieved, that her hurting had finally stopped. I was sad for my family losing her, but at the same time I was almost happy for her,(maybe because I had a wierd dream, where she appeared, and told me she felt so wonderful, and that everything was going to be OK ). Strange dream, but I never look back and feel sad, I wish for you to have a nice dream like that, so you won't be so unhappy. Best wishes, & dreams to you.

Answer 4

Try to understand that death is a natural part of life and that your grandma is probably in a better place. Was she really old or sick??? I'm sure that she is happier now. Was she a good person??? If she was then God will have her in glory, and if she did something wrong then God forgives her and then takes her to glory. She is gone but you are still here and you have to try to live your life normally, even if you are sad. If you feel like crying, cry, theres nothing wrong with that. Just remember that she is in a nice place and that if she's not here anymore is because she alredy did what God wanted her to do. But you're still alive and you have to do what God want's. Remember, Only He knows why this happend and if He wanted this to happen is for the best.

Answer 5

Awww....I'm sorry! and the second answer was being an a$$ hole, so I am really sorry. Well I am really not that funny but I got this joke off someone else...There was this was this question on Yahoo answers and the answer was really corny but here it is:
Q. - What do you do for a living?
A. - I'm a Diesel Fitter. I work in a factory that makes pantyhose. At the end of the assembly line I hold up the pantyhose and say "'Deis'el fitt'er!"

I know it wasd corny but, I just thought it was really funny! Anway, I hope you feel better!

Answer 6

You can find comfort in knowing that your grandmother loved you very much and though she is not physically here to talk to you that her spirit lives in you. Continue to make her proud as she looks upon you from heaven, get those grades up! She probably would rather you continue to pursue your own hopes and dreams. You're gonna miss her and you'll never forget her. She's infamous in your mind and heart. Live on Grandma!

I lost my grandfather 2 1/2 years ago and I cried and cried. Death is never easy when it's someone you care for. But you will heal and it's gonna take time. Just allow yourself to feel what you need to feel right now and "this too shall pass" God Bless You!

Answer 7

OH!! I am so sorry!! I couldn't imagine. I love my Gram so much. I did lose my pap about 5yrs ago and it was horrible!! All I can tell you is that to remember all your times you had w/her and know she is looking down at you and missing you too! It will get easier but honestly, it will take a while. I still think of my pap alot! But now we can laugh at the funny things he used to do and say. Just do things that you know she will be proud of. And I wish you all the best. Here is a * for you! (am I the only 1 who emailed the guy, icesword900 after you read what he wrote? why are people like that?!!)

Answer 8

I miss my dad to. He died On the 4th of January this year I miss him so much. I am really sorry like I said I can somewhat relate. Time will heal it's self. I know it is not easy but just stay strong and try to move on. You have got to. DO NOT MASK YOURSELF WITH DRUGS AND ALCHOL. Face this head on and just keep your head up. I think I went through a lot more than you though. I am an only child so guess who had to make up oh say about 85 0r 90% of all of the disions after my dad died? You can do this without drugs and alchol. I am a stronger person because of creating strength for myself and believe me...NOT EASY. I am an addict and I am making myself move on without because I am so done with all that I am done. Returning would only mean that I have givin up on myself. If you do this you will never face the problem of all that you are going through. I haven't touched it for over 5 and a half years. All I am saying is, Bottom line is to stay strong and fight. You can do it. I know you can. Again I am very sorry.

Answer 9

I am very sorry for your loss. I recently lost a friend of mine and I am still grieving over that even though it was in December. What I try to do to stay happy is think of all the good times I had with him. I also hang out with friends a lot and they are really good at making sure I dont break down. Just hang out with friends a lot. That always helps. Music is always good too!! Put your favorite CD in the radio and sing and dance like no ones watching!! :)

God Bless!

Answer 10

Aww. I lost my grandmother to cancer. She did lived a tough life growing up.
And she accomplished a lot of things within her life. Things are really different around here, because she used to live here. She's definitely in a better a peaceful place. Just think of all those good times spent with her. After deaths, some family members barely ever talk about the person because it can bring up lots of emotions. Which isnt right. Just stay strong and think of good memories. =]

Answer 11

Not to sound cliche or anything, but its just important to remember that Death is just a part of Life. Everyone who has ever lived has died or will die. Its a completely natural thing. Its also natural to be sad and miss loved once after they have passed away. Its important to Grieve. Just think of your Grandma as having shed her body and moved on. Her body has died, but her soul will live forever. You will feel better. Just be patient.