why do men look at other women when they are with ther girlfriend?

Question

like for instance mine

Answer 1

I had this problem big time. i still do in some occurrences.....well I never got my true answer...but denial from my man. I guess they have to do it all the time. They do not know how to have "just interest" in ONE woman. It bothers me alot. andd I feel as though I am not pretty enough or enough overall for him period. I pray at nights that I will get use to it, and let it go., because awhile ago it really did get to me. I would cry every night because I was hurt. when girls were around on tv. or anywhere my boyfriend looked and I would say something, but it was always denial and it still is. The best thing to do is know that you are beautiful and that you can leave the relationship at any time. What I really need to pray about that maybe my boyfriend or a man wiil eventually only want me sightfully instead of lusting and drowling over other females. But what you really have to know...is that their are guys to look at too. and their are guys who possibly drool over you. Have confidence and faith that you are beautiful. God Bless.

Answer 2

Honestly, I think it is the natural curiosity of the human body that starts it. It is an automatic reaction to notice the opposite sex/gender. This can be said for women also. Im sure women look at other men when they are with thier boyfriend. It is a natural reaction. Now, sometimes it is just an innocent reaction, others it goes beyond the reaction. Like for instance, a guy might look at a girl/woman and think nothing of her and go about whatever it was they were doing before. On the other hand he might look at her, notice something, and then curiosity takes hold, of which might lead to "checking out". This happens for both male and female, I can assure you that. But I honestly think it is for the most part a natural reaction, to begin with.

-Brandon-

Answer 3

So? Women look at other men when they're in a relationship. It's only normal. Some people are attractive, you can't help yourself. They're not seriously interested in that person, they just think they're cute/pretty/hot. Maybe they're trying to make you jealous so you'll notice them more.

Answer 4

Because they're animals and can't help themselves most of the time. Don't make this excuse for him and give him an easy out though, men may be single minded but I don't think they're completely brainless. He must know that it's disrespectful and hurts your feelings...he needs to learn to be more considerate.

Answer 5

It's natural. I'm a heterosexual married female, but I look at pretty women when they walk by, the same way I look at good looking men, cute babies, puppies....

It's natural to look at others. It doesn't mean he finds you any less attractive. If it really bothers you, then talk to him about it and be honest about your feelings.

Answer 6

some men do it because they are just not getting enough love and attention, others do it to make there girls feel that they need to step it up
so dont be bothered by it if it only happens sometimes, but if it happens all the time then ladies BEWARE

Answer 7

I got a better one. Why do a lot of ' men ' with a woman in tow seem to have coached her before hand to assume a sultry come hither posture as they pass you by? I'll bet there is something to do with freakishness in there someplace.

Answer 8

I can't say for sure why men look at me when I am with my girlfriend. Maybe he thinks she is cuter, but he doesn't know she is married too.

Answer 9

Those are guys, come on don't tell me you don't check out guys when you are with your man. The only advice i will give you is if you see him doing that don't show that your jealous because he will do it more and more just to get you mad.

Answer 10

This is a natural thing. They just do, they can't help it. I wouldn't worry about it unless he's unfaithful, or criticizes your appearance frequently.