do i give the letters to her husband to prove she is a lier?

Question

this woman i work with asked me if she could use my address because her cousin was in jail and her husband didnt want her to have anything to do with her...when the letters came in i noticed they were from a past co-worker who got fired...I didn't give the letters to her when they came in because her husband works with me also and i dont agree with cheats...anyway i read the letters and became very aware of what was going on with them two...well story is out at work and she is saying we are all liers...do i give the hubby the letters to prove she is a huge lier and cant tell the truth even if she triped of it?

Answer 1

And what does that make you? A busybody? Or just a person who breaks US law pertaining to the mails?

You are legally forbidden from opening mail that is not addressed to you., and you have no business getting involved in someone else's marriage.

What if he turns on you for your trouble, and tells you off or worse?

Answer 2

No, you just walk away from the whole situation. It doesn't matter what she's doing or what she says because:

1. It was a bad idea for her to use your address to begin with
2. You broke the law by opening her mail
3. You read her mail and it's none of your business
4. It doesn't matter that you don't agree with what she's doing. If she's a cheat, then you're a law-breaking snoop.

As a business owner, I had an employee that was always involved in, or creating, drama. It was a drain on the workplace and poisonous to everyone around her. I found a way to get rid of her, end of problem. Hint, hint.

It sounds to me like you have other motives. I would destroy the letters and let she and her husband work it out. You have involved yourself way too much. At this point, you've created a situation for yourself where your integrity and credibility don't seem to mean that much to you, and being called a liar at this point is the least of your problems.

Answer 3

So bypass to Kim Komando's cyber web website and seem for a keystroke logger, or do a Google seek for one, and deploy it on the laptop. Then despite if he deletes the historic previous, each keystroke he types or gets would be saved and emailed to an email handle which you specify. If all he's doing is finding at porn .... and if he admitted it once you asked him if that's what he replaced into doing .... then he's no longer a liar in any respect. He admitted it already. And sure, despite if he admitted it he might nonetheless opt for to delete the historic previous besides because of the fact the non everlasting cyber web records so as that the photos from the porn would not be showing up unexpectedly.

Answer 4

DUDE - you know opening federal mail is a felony, right????
I would not broadcast that on the net.
On the other hand - who are you to destroy a marriage.
Just give them to her opened. Tell her straight up that obviously you know what's going on and you will tell her husband if she does not. Give her a time of about 30 days.
At that point you may want to consider getting out of that office and out of the middle of this fiasco you inserted yourself into.
As for telling the hubby, I would just wait a bit, give her time to deal with it and then let him know you are getting letters from so and so for her and if you get anymore would he like htem. Don't say anything about the contents. Just mention that she's not been good at collecting them.
If you drop the name it should give him a clue.
AND DON'T OPEN ANYMORE

Answer 5

I don't think you should have her to receive letters to your home, no matter who it is. You see, she already was dishonest with you in the very beginning by saying the letters are from her cousin. But, since you already agreed by receiving them and you read them already, and you are in the middle of this love triangle, it is up to you to decide on what to do with the letters. You shouldn't have opened them up, that's is a felony even if they were mailed to your home. Plus, not even sure if you told your husband about getting letters to your home. But, if that were me, I would have not accept the letters at my home, I would have stayed out of it.

I would then tell her that you are disappointed with what happened and that she should tell her husband on what's going on.

Again, these letters were none of your business.

Answer 6

YOU are in the wrong for even opening up her mail like that. Do you realize just how much trouble you can get into ?? I would just let them be if she wants to say everyone is a liar than let her cause she can get you into so much trouble and not just that this was really none of your buisness to interfer with you only made it your buisness by allowing mail to come to your house and than you opened something that wasnt yours. you should just let her be.

Answer 7

stay out of it unless you find yourself thrown under the bus, then use it to get out from under. You won't achieve anything from doing this except getting in the middle of a firefight. It's not worth it, it's not your marriage, reputation, or job on the line. However it could be. Save your arsenal...keep it to yourself....put it in a drawer and sit back and watch.

Answer 8

You are a deplorable human being. You allowed her to use your address and then messed her up. You read her mail, so if you show it to him and she finds it, she should report you to the Postal Authorities. No matter how you got them, it's breaking the law to open and read them. I hope she nails you.

Answer 9

Yes i think you should give them to the husband. At least then people will see the kind of integrity you have. Cheaters deserve all they get. Do it!

Answer 10

I tend to agree with Nort. It seems as if you have dug a hole and want some others to go in with you.