I sit at home and watch t.v and listen to music all day. There is a guy my brothers friend named David and he creeps me out. i usse to be really good friends with him back in elementry school but now when he comes around he is always trying to be around me. he pocks me in the side and its weird. The only place he can't be around me is when i am in my room so i stay there all day until he leaves. Am i lame or is this natural. He has even tried to come in my room a few times. i told my mom about it and shes like of theres nothing to worry about. The thing is she doesn't know his history with girls. it kind of creepy and i can't tell her because it can cause a lot of drama. any ways please help
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needing help
2007-03-14 13:24:02 · 17 answers · asked by heritagedancer_333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if u sit at home and watch tv all day then chances are u are lame. get some activities to do so he dosent bother you while you're at home.
2007-03-14 13:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the thing you don't want to tell your mom (remember, I am trying to keep in touch with you) you have nothing to lose by just telling her! Just sit her down and tell her that this boy makes you uncomfortable, tell her what he is doing and try to get her to understand.
I don't know the nature of your problems honey, if this is really serious abuse, just from this alone, or how "normal" any of your problems are, but if you really hurting inside, and especially if you are being abused by someone, you really need to tell someone you trust about it. Please start with your mother...and if she doesn't listen, move on and tell someone else. Tell people until someone listens.
I wish I could help you more, you sound like a nice kid but you do seem confused about a few things, and I wish you had a better self-esteem.
2007-03-14 23:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by musicimprovedme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No brother you are not lame, this cat who creeps you out? Tell him politely to piss off of you space it is as simple as that. Sometimes you have to spend time with people you don,t like but not in your castle! Plan what you have to say and be firm about it. Instead of worrying about him, think about why you spend all your time watching TV and listening to tunes? How much contact do you have with people? It is not good to have to much time by yourself. I think you should get motivated and experience life than watching the box! Your not lame unless you truly think it. If that is the case then stop it!
2007-03-14 20:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by p_albert_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut.
If he creeps you out, leave the situation (like you have been doing).
If he bugs you, tell him its inappropriate. You need to let him know poking/bugging you is NOT okay with you. He's disrespecting you, and if you are not interested, you don't have to take it. Do it nicely, but do it firmly.
You shouldn't be a prisoner of your room. Go to the library, take a walk, ask your mom to go with you. You shouldn't let your mom brush off your worries.
Then, talk with her honestly about it. Tell her you want a "Woman to woman" talk, that you need her advice and guidance as a mother. and that it's about you being a responsible, respectable woman.
2007-03-14 20:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Just K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u not go to a friends or relatives for a while when he is there? Tell your mum you dont feel comfortable around him and avoid him as much as you can and put a lock on your door. Maybe he likes you but if you're not interested then make it clear, dont encourage him when he talks to you, and explain when you are in your room you are busy so you dont want anyone to bother you.
2007-03-14 20:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by stacie_yst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far too timid and this creep is just taking advantage of that, next time just say to him in a very loud voice "Fu*k off you creep"!!
It doesnt matter if other folk are around say it and mean it.
Or the other alternative is just keep hiding, is that what you really want t do?? Get more assertive, let him know he is a creep.
2007-03-15 02:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable in your house because of someone else, then it sounds to me like you really need to tell your mum how you feel. This might seem a really hard thing to do, but I'm sure if your mum knows how you feel she'll do everything she can to help you.x
Oh, and no, you're not lame.
2007-03-14 20:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bro how you feel, but in as nice a way as possible, I'm sure he'll tell his friend to back off.....
Oh and I love that word 'lame'! It's got to be the only decent slang word the Americans have ever produced!
2007-03-15 00:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He really likes u,but he does know how to show it.U can sit and talk to him and let him tell u how he feels about u and u tell him how u feel about him (if u do feel the same way about him try to be nice when telling him).
2007-03-14 20:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not into him then tell him to bog off!
You should not have to feel like you have to hide in your room!
Next time he pokes you in the ribs warn him "the next time you do that, I will knee you in the nuts. Believe!"
This should give him the answer to his silly quest to conquer you (If that's what you think he is after) and give him a warning that next time he does it then its his own fault that he is doubled over in pain screaming like a girl!
2007-03-14 20:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by Chris W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋