I have this girl who used to be my friend now that we got in a fight one time she wont leave me alone. i got over it years ago but she just wont quit bugging me. What should i do?
2007-03-14 13:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by kamaria d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a tough situation.
Can you avoid her? It depends on where you see her. If it's all day at school, can you switch to a different program or ignore her?
Conflict is seldom worth anything. The more you can show her that her attention just makes you look important and her look ridiculous, the better.
2007-03-14 13:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to talk by her terms. It seems like she's framing the situation, and trying to take control by needling you into a response.
Instead? Just pretend nothings wrong. Act like everything is normal, and if she says something out of line, just act as though you didn't hear it.
You don't have to ignore her 100% (I know that can be hard at school), but you can take the high road. Treat her respectfully, and leave it at that.
2007-03-14 13:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Just K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should do it back. Show her you aren't weak and you can fight back. She just thinks you won't do anything and that she's bigger and tougher. Act hard and put all your strength in a punch if you have to. Hey, people may disagree with me but I don't like it when people pick on other people. Don't be mushy and try to talk to her, she might smack the sh*t out of you. So yeah.
2007-03-14 13:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to someone bout the situation....anyone it'll get a lot off ur back :).....im asian...and here we don't have no time out..we have something...something called...knock out ;)..lol got that from a movie...but really stand ur ground and don't let her stupid insults get to u....cuz obviously right now its showing that shes got no life..good luck :)
2007-03-14 13:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through this in middle school.there does come a time when enough is enough and you have to stand your ground.in my case a fight was in order...afterwards needles to say the bullying stopped.
2007-03-14 13:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by stonethedevil2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Handler her. Just bother her the same way she bothers you. If she doesn't quit it, fight her that's what I would do. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-14 13:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by ->Yera<- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There comes a time when the only thing left to do is KNOCK THE ***** OUT!!!!
2007-03-14 13:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coincide with them, basically tell them that what they are saying is offending me.
then i ignore them
then i fight back
2007-03-17 11:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her.
if she talks to you, just walk away. let her do her taunts or whatever "oo there she goes" or whatever she does.. it'll get old.. eventually, she'll move on. don't feed into it.
2007-03-14 13:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋