Whats the best way to hold a grudge?

Question

They always wriggle away and I can't hold them.

Answer 1

In a cage, in a dark corner of the cellar.

You don't need to feed them too often, a little food goes a long way. You may want to go down there every once in a while and give them a little stroke. Grudges don't need much nurturing to linger for a long, long time.

Of course, it's healthier for everyone in the long run if you let them go. They do tend to stink the place up and make the air toxic.

Answer 2

You are blessed that you cant hold a grudge for long. It is best to forget a grudge arising from a harm done, as early as possible. If not, one would continue to think about it for long. This not only acts on the mind, but also results in loss of concentration for doing other positive activities. One should try to get on with life, after the shock of the initial disappointment is got over. Try to learn a lesson from the experience and do not try to repeat the same situation in future, as far as is possible.
However, forgiving (or forgetting) a grudge should not mean it is a sign of weakness. One needs to weigh the situation that gave rise to a grudge, and see if there is a possible way to solve it.

Answer 3

Let it go! When one holds a grudge in time you will find that it actually holds you. It affects your mental and physical health.
It is non-productive and in time the person that has wronged you will be wronged worse, when he/she least expects it.
When I was a young man in the military, I had vowed to kill a person for a wrong. About 12 yrs later I was assigned to another base after being stationed in Taiwan and Japan twice.
The other staff were talking about an old transportation officer and how dirty and self centered he was. For some reason things started to click and I asked what was his name. When they told me I found it was the same officer that was my Squadron Commander.
Then the told the reason they were talking bout him was they got word that he got killed in a plane crash. At first I felt cheated but then I felt such a great relief as if a great weight was taken off my shoulders.
I had carried that grudge and revenge desire all those years and I thought back to different illnesses and negative things that happened to me.
Since then I decided not to carry grudges and have had no physical or mental issues.

Answer 4

Grudges are like that. They seem slimy also. So, perhaps, the best thing to do is to let them go... if they come back, it was meant to be; if they don't, it wasn't

Answer 5

on top your head, with one hand steadying it.

or with both hands extended out infront like if your trying to get rid of it

or play "hot patato" with it, bounce it 'tween hands.

or hold it between your teeth

or use your psychic powers to "hold it" above anyones reach

or get someone else to hold it for you.

or...

Answer 6

theyre so sticky too, i like to throw mine up against a wall and watch "em slide down real slow.

Answer 7

i would reccomend you hold the grudge by the short and curleys. wait.... grudges, not bulges? never mind....

Answer 8

To not hold one!!!! Life is too short to waste time on that!!!

Answer 9

Write the incedent down look at it wen u stop getting mad it helps me!!

Answer 10

Get a big, thick trash bag.