There is a girl in my class and I have the biggest crush on her. She is pretty and cute and smart and all things good. I know she is not a lesbian, But I wish she was. Is that wrong of me. Also am I bad for wishing I could kiss her?
2007-03-14 13:08:15 · 12 answers · asked by Rory a 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're having sexual thoughts about another person. It's normal. Unfortunately it looks like you probably won't get a chance to act on them this time.
2007-03-14 14:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There nothing wrong with that! Go talk to her,try to be her friend ,don't tell her your feelings yet,ask her questions like"What do you think about lesbians","have you ever wish to kiss a girl"? You will learn more about her.......good luck!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 21:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a bad thing. Everyone has fantasies and it is completely normal. Just don't let your fantasy interfere with a friendship you can possibly have with that person or try to influence that person without realizing that is what is happening. Some people try to make their fantasies come true and that is where everything goes wrong. Fantasies are just that fantasies.
2007-03-14 20:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Just Curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got the biggest things for this girl in class. Yeah im a girl, but she is soooo straight. I told her that i have liked her for some time, but she didn't seem to care, but she wouldn't go for me..... As for the kissing part, dont do it! It will KILL your reptutation, if you are popular or something... It did to me!
2007-03-14 20:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by A.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem... but one day she told me she thought she was bi because she was thinking about some girl (turned out to b me!) i was excited but i was to shy to do anything... but we ended up going out and we dated for about 5 months b4 we parted on friendly terms (shes still my best friend)
i say u can always hope... u never know she may just be bi and is hiding it very well...
its not wrong of u, girl! its never wrong to wish! just don't do anything if u know it will hurt u later... if u know positively that nothing can ever happen btwn u and her then i say try to move on as best u can... it will b hard but i know u'll b able to do it if u have to... may the best of luck be with u!
2007-03-14 21:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nightstalkr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in no way bad! Everybody has fantasies, in some way everybody wants something they can't have. You have to respect the fact that she is straight and make sure not to cross that line though.
2007-03-14 20:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Joy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's just a crush but I'd make sure that you're feelings are true before you do anything about it.
2007-03-14 20:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by matchbook1984 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, the last thing you wanna do is waste your time on a straight person. It really leads to nowhere.
2007-03-15 02:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Charles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its alright, thats cool, but you always have to respect straight people's choices and everything.
2007-03-14 20:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say more "confused" than wrong. Go get a boyfriend - is my personal advice, and opinion.
2007-03-14 20:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋