my best friend and i have only known each other for 6 months and we have been cool ever since we havae never fought and everyone knows we are tight but i went out with her ex after she BEGGED me to go with him cause i really liked him and she told me that if i liked him i should go with him but i should be careful cause he was a jerk but she was ohk with it so mwe and him went out and i really liked him but i ended up breaking up with him and now she is all depressed about it and now me and her dont get along now and its like we never talk and she ignores my calls cause it goes to her voice msg that says hey im on the other line or i dont want to talk to you so i dont know what to do and yes i posted a different question on this earlier lol
2007-03-14 13:04:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well that's stupid but talk her at school and make things better or when you call her use *67 and it will block the call
2007-03-14 13:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hayley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was acting in your best interest & trying to be a good friend, but knowing it would hurt her. The problem with that is she didn't realize how much it would hurt her.
There's this unwritten rule among girls really that you don't date the guy the other girl's dated. Why? Because it's asking for trouble. There may be unfinished feelings between the guy & your friend that you getting into a relationship with will make worse. Or what if you & him Had worked out, that means there's something wrong with her then. Of course not really, but that's how it might make her feel...
If she's that good of a friend, she just needs some time to adjust to it. I was in the same situation as your friend & after a month, I came around. It's an ego thing, ego's heal.
2007-03-14 20:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me and my best friend have known each other since we were three and we are 13 now. we've had fights that we thought we thought we would never talk again! but were still very good best friends! if ur best friend is mad at u for little things like that then she doesn't appreciate what a good friend she has right there for her! shell get over if shes really ur best Friend cuz best friends don't stay mad at each other for a long time they just cant resit talking to there best friend! hope this helps u!
2007-03-14 20:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Korina O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually she'll come around once she realizes how silly this is for her to be upset becuase you broke up with a guy she wanted you to go out with.
Just rememeber
Friends are forever, boys are whatever
2007-03-14 20:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mz♥Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i don't get why she is so concerned about you and this guy dating. stop trying to contact her since she doesn't want to talk. she will realize that she is being unfair to you, and if she really cares she will come back to you. if not, forget her. she doesn't sound like a very good friend. make some new friends. she will get jealous. ;) good luck =)
2007-03-14 20:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by hotsexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much a friend says they don't mind if you go out with their ex it will evetually bother them.
She'll get over it. If she doesn't then just hang out with someone else.
2007-03-14 20:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋