Agressive while dating??I am a very shy low kep person and am always nice to everyone but guys always try and control or manipulate me?How can i learn to be more assertive and aggresive about what i want?
2007-03-14 13:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex. bf thought i was too meek in bed.I want a serious relationship and to eventually get married though!
2007-03-14 13:06:28 · update #1
have an opinion and don't allow yourself to be manipulated.....practice saying, NO
2007-03-14 13:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to be such a people pleaser. Have an opinion about everything. Make a decision about where to eat dinner and what to order. You can remain low key and nice and still make your opinions known. Just be honest with the men in your life. Think it and it will be. We teach people how to treat us by how we ALLOW them to treat us. So don't allow them to be controlling and manipulative. And if they are, distance yourself from them.
2007-03-14 20:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first need to start respecting yourself as a woman. Not to let anyone use your body like you are some type of 'b**ch. Sorry to say and be so harsh here.
Stop dating guys who will use you for sex and who just manipulate you in ways to get what they want from you. You need a back bone and need to learn to say 'NO' to them.
If you want respect from someone you are dating, then first you need to respect them first. Date someone who you think you are going to marry. Being aggressive will not make things better for you. It is all about attitude.
2007-03-14 20:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unzip his pants and take charge. Don't jellydick around. Tell him that he's either going to put out or you'll beat his a$$.
2007-03-14 20:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋