I met my boyfriend through e-harmony he is 40 yrs and I'm 34. For the past six months we have had a wonderful loving and caring relationship. The only concern I always had was that we used to fight too much, and the arguments were getting worse and worse with time. I find him very temperamental, he gets very easily upset and quite frankly we haven't been able to keep a conversation at a discussion level without confrontations.
Two weeks ago, he wanted to break up with me, because he said that we fight too much. We talked about it, and we still together, and the fights have ceased considerably. However, even before he asked me to break up, I kind of suspect that he was getting very distant with me. He doesn't call me as much as he used to, I feel that something has changed. He acts distant, even though he tries to hide it. I asked him if he is seeing someone else, and he said no. I feel he is seeing someone. I love him very much, his actitud it's hurting me.what should I do
2007-03-14 12:57:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say go with ur gut feeling. Why spend ur relationship fighting or walking on egg shells so not to make him upset? If he gets easily upset what does this mean for ur future u will be afraid to discuss anything with him for fear of upsetting him.......Move on life is too short to spend it fighting.....
Good Luck
2007-03-14 18:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by cindy j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask for your money back from e-harmony! No, that was mean. O.K. I'd like to ask if after your discussion on breaking up was over if you watched "your" attitude. Were you the reason there were so many arguments? If so, then you are probably trying to tell yourself something! I know that most people roll their eyes at sub-conscious thought, but in this case there may be something to it? You need to sit down by yourself, and start to decide if this relationship is what you need. I know you have 6 months invested into this relationship. Still, do you really want it.
2007-03-14 21:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not that into you......six months does not make a wonderful loving and caring relationship if you have been have been fighting....
quit wasting your time with him
2007-03-14 20:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out if he want to be with you.....if he doesnt move on you are still oung....good luck!!!
2007-03-14 20:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Flip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋