2007-03-14 12:53:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
um...yeah! why should she be seeingthis guy if he's cheating on her. and you shouldn't be doing that to your sister either...shame on you.
2007-03-14 12:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa T 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you mean that there was sexual activity involved. If that's the case my dear, I do hope that protection was used. How well (length of time/basic family history?) do you know this young man? If no protection was used, I would recommend making an appointment with your OBGYN to get tested for common STD's. If you do not have a doctor, you can also contact Planned Parenthood, they do free testing and sexual education and you can donate money on your way out and you can be sure that you're clear and healthy.
I do think that even though it would be incredibly difficult to tell your sister what has happened, you must tell her. Just because if the guy did that to her with her own sister, what's to say he has not already done the same with other ladies as well? Even if telling her right now may harm your relationship with your sister (temporarily), I think you owe it to her as your flesh and blood to at least tell her about her boyfriends indiscretions to preserve her sexual health (permanently... as in... he gets kicked to the curb and can go frollick around with whoever else he wants so long as you and/or your sister are CLEARLY out of the picture and safely away from him), as well as her mental/emotional health also.
Good luck to you whatever you decide.
Take care,
miR :)
2007-03-14 20:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by mir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said we ended up..... do you mean in ded? if so then you should have known better, as he was kissing you, you should have backed off but since you didn't..... , I wouldn't tell your sister it would cause so much hurt and anger on her part she would hate you. But as for her boyfriend well find some other way to tell her that he is no good and hope she breaks up with him. I hope you have learned from your mistake and never ever do that again. if her boyfriend tries to get on to you a 2nd time then tell your sister that he was trying to kiss you, but she may not believe you. Just remove yourself from his company when he is around, don't be in the same room with him when you are alone.
2007-03-14 20:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why did u kiss him back. And yes you should tell your sister, not only because u have to but it will make u feel better. And maybe she wont be that mad at you since you came to her and told her the truth. Good luck!
2007-03-14 19:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by star86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your sister because she doesnt need a man thats gonna cheat on her and she would probably be even more mad if he has to be the one to tell her what happened between you and him. If you dont say something he might and that would probably cause more fighting between you 2. Your her sister and she needs to know.
2007-03-14 19:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of tell your sister. although she is going to feel betrayed by the two people in her life she needs to know she don't need him. second, how could you do that to your sister? I am not judging you because I have had sex with one my sisters boyfriends when we was younger.
i just feel bad that you crossed that line. your sister will never trust you fully ever again.
2007-03-14 19:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed and Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He is a dog and she should know. You have to put yourself in the other persons shoes for situations like this. Would you want to know the truth? I just hope you didn't do anything you are going to regret in the long run. Your family is more important than some guy.
2007-03-14 19:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you not control yourself! It was ur sister's boyfriend for god sakes, not a good one but still. You should tell her, and if your lucky, maybe she will forgive you in about five years.
2007-03-14 20:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you shouold tell her. this guy is bad news, so don't you think about dating him. he may do the same thing to you. the sooner you tell him the better. if you wait even longer she will be more furious in the long run. because not only did a bad thing happen, but then you kept it a secret from her.
2007-03-14 19:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by annie41378 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sooo wrong u dont do that to FAMILY!!! If u have the guts(those same guts u had 2 kiss HER man) tell her and if you DONT then her man is going to think u like him n he's going to think its ok.
2007-03-14 20:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Raquel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to get your butt kicked.Where is your decency.and why would you even publish this utter failure of trust.Tell her before that slug of a boyfriend does.At least you wont have to worry about her finding out from someone else.
2007-03-14 20:06:08 · answer #11 · answered by jack y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋